How Many Sex Partners Have You Really Had?

Source: University of Michigan

I was just reading a survey and it was about how people responded to questions about how many sex partners they had in their lifetime. Here is some of their findings:

The answer, statisticians say, ought to be the same, on average, for any large group of men and women. But most surveys in the United States, the United Kingdom and other nations find that men report two-to-four times as many sexual partners as do women.

Are men lying to inflate their sexual reputations? Are women lying to downplay their sexual experience?

I would like to hear you guys thoughts on this and if any of you have the heart to be honest. Our first blog experiment!!

How many people have you really had sex with?

578 thoughts on “How Many Sex Partners Have You Really Had?

  1. LOL i deffinitely feel much better after reading this xD!!! Not a saint at all though i’m 19 and been with 23 boys and 1 girl…. People shouldn’t judge! It is your life and it is up to you to choose how many people you wanna fuck!

  2. I am 66 and have had sex with over 1000 women. I have been married to three women and the one that had the most partners prior to being with me gave me everything I needed because she liked sex. I think if you want lots of sex from your partner marry a slut and don’t worry if she fucks around.

  3. Im a 25 yr old male lost virginity at 15 i have been with over 250 women majority of them was before age 23 it was just normal for me because i really didn’t have high standards and i was a good looking puerto rican just being honest

  4. Wow all these girls here talk about it like it’s normal damn way to many parents have failed really hard in raising their kids
    all girls that have sex before they are at least 18 are soo fucking gross
    those girls don’t deserve to be alive or have a happy live they need to burn in hell because they have no respect at all
    it’s soo disgusting to know that girls do 1 night stands and all that.
    I would never ever want a girl that already had sex
    All those guys out there are all ugly pervs
    Girls should know better stupid sluts these day’s

  5. OK I guess I win the prize. Started when I was 16 in High School, at end of 4 years in college was over 200, that was in early 80’s. Just last Thursday I did a Hat Trick in 10 hours. Average about 12 per month since 1983 sometimes more so the math is 12X12 =144 x 33 = 4464 + 200 before 1983 =4664 some have been fat, black, married, HOTT, oriental , mother and daughter at same time in Dallas Texas 3 years ago, I dont care . My wife dosent like sex and I can’t live without it. Plus I do oral on all the ladies. The Hat Trick last week was 37,50, 60 year old, the 60 has body of 20 and loves anal. So sorry for all the people that have 50 or under and someone is casting judgement and calling them sluts, etc. I must be a Super Stud or Biggest Playa on East coast, no huge cock either, nice 7 , does the trick.

  6. Well im 20 and already slept with 22 guys. Thing is I lost my virginity at 19. And none of my friends think im a slut cus im young and just wana have fun. So for everyone who likes to judge can go fuck themselves. Im living MY life not yours so stay out of it.

  7. I’m 19 and I’ve had sex with 19 guys. I feel embarrassed about this number because I’m questioning whether or not I respect myself. I love sex obviously but I also love the attention. I’ve had sex with guys that my friends like and I don’t know why. I like sex but I also care about my friendships. This “slutiness” seems to be getting in the way of my friendships and it’s scaring me.

  8. Hey all, ok here’s a no-shit, non-inflated number from a guy who got around. I’m 33, honest answer, more than 200. Lost virginity at 12to older female(15), my buddies and played sex games often with girls, freshman year of college, lived in the dorms, we had a game on our floor where, for 15 weeks, we passed chicks around each week(plenty of jokes about each others’ ‘leftovers’). Frat life was even better. By the time I graduated, I’d estimate I did at least 60-80 college chicks, as far as my military service, you don’t get laid a lot when you’re deployed(the muff don’t smell so great after 4days no shower in 120deg weather), probably only a few dozen over those years. Marriage(10months of hell…only one partner). As soon as I walked out the door, I went hog wild….first stop, her cousin’s house, then the best friend (I don’t even think I showered, it was on the same day….oh yes I did; and got into a rhythm of like a new partner every other week, I was a super freak…with same person now for last 2yrs….those wild oats WERE WILD, probably closer to 300, never an STD, may have passed around some HPV, but what the hell…ya only live once and get one chance to be the most interesting man in the world

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  10. I lost my virginity at 12 I had sex with around 68-75 guys I regret it but nothing I can do now. it doesn’t seem like I did.. im 18 year old female

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  12. The young girls (16-21) who have slept with more than 15 boys is good, I prefer girls who like sex that much, who sleep around, they’re the best girl to be with, I let my girlfriends sleep with other men I don’t mind, I love sex and I want to be with someone who loves it as much as me, I let me girlfriend give oral to other men too, it’s all practice, the more they practice the better they are for me. As long as they don’t have an STD then it’s good. But girls who sleep around are the perfect girls

  13. Im currently 18, turning 19 in march, so far ive been with a total of 13 men.. I regret one of them..he waited until i was 18! UugH. He was 30 i know it was my decision but i do regret it!

  14. I am 21 and have slept with 7 guys. Two of the times were while I was drunk, one was a random quickie when I was depressed in college, and the rest were attempts at actually making love and bonding with hopes of building a stronger relationship.

  15. I’M 17 have had sex with 8 ppl omg ikr
    My first long term relationship so was my my third relationship we went together a while it was a bday present my fourth first time getting head don’t regret him my fifth last two secs he put it in once I said I’m done my sixth my seventh he forced hiself my eighth is my boyfriend now of two years who I love my ninth because my boyfriend cheated to & all of these were less than five mins except my bf now ugh I’m a slut a bad person huh :-(

  16. Damn, and i felt bad for being with 5 men and i am 24. I kind of thought that was a big number but my word, I am way below the average woman. lol

  17. Im famale and Im 15 n I been with 21 guys, alot of them were quickies tho n some were just for like 2 seconds and only one of them was my boyfriend. I lodt my virginity at 13, it seems like a lot but its not really. The guys just kept comin n comin n I like sex n they were sexy so I went for it.

  18. All of you awful human beings are sluts. You don’t deserve to be called people. Your more like cockroaches

  19. I have had sex with 2 boys and 2 girls (I’m female). 15 years old (16 next month)
    Both girls were drunken, drunken times!
    One boy I was in a relationship with for over a year and was 13 when I lost my virginity, the other boy was rebound sex which I regret..
    I’m now with another boyfriend who I haven’t had sex with yet (we’ve been together for 7months now) because I want to wait because I feel like a bad slutttttttt

  20. 5’4 male military brat: 2 (a 15 yo & a married 21 yo milf) when I was 17. Then moved again.
    I regret the married woman & would have liked to have had a LTR with the 15yo. ce la vie

    I’m 44 now & learned most ppl are liars, thieves, bigots, braggarts, bums, con artists, etc.
    i.e. Scum. There word is garbage = they are garbage.

    I’d happily live in a hole in the desert awaiting death because I’ve had my fill of the human race. Who wants to be where they are not wanted or a walking wallet, Not desired sexually?
    Takes away any joy or motivation to try to pursue women & I’m no homo. Best wishes.

  21. Started at age 16 had sex with 35 men 3 serious relationships now age 20 married and expecting first baby :)

  22. Ill be 18 in January and I’ve had sex with 16 people, one was a girl, and I’ve never been in a relationship.

  23. I have sex with 83 women I stared when I was 14 I love it and I’m a sex addict no stds as of yesterday

  24. Im 19, and ive been with one guy.. the man ive been with for 4 years. my first time was when i was 16.

  25. I’m 20 year old female and had sex with 22 guys ans 5 girls. I lost my virginity at the age of 15. I’ve never told anyone the real number i always make up a number more than 5 and less than 10. I keep my secual life personal what happen behinds doors stays behind doors. It’s none of people bussiness to know my sexual life. I take care of myself never had an std. And i’m not ashame of my number it was what i wanted to do in life. People if your sexual active and you enjoy it keep enjoying it don’t regret it there’s no time to regret this world has come to something else and not every generation is the same at least my generation is mostly about sex now a days so that’s how i see it live by the moment. :))))

  26. I’m 19 year old female and had sex with 32 guys…(lost virginity at 17) not extremely proud of it but I have calmed down a WHOLE lot. I never really liked it because most of them were one night stands … So I promised the next guy I sleep with would be a serious boyfriend but i still feel gross :/ how can I get pass this and start a new.

  27. I’m male, 39 years old, started at 16 years old,23 women, including my current gf (she’s 40 y/o, started at 16. I feel this is a really low number, given that more than half of them were one night stands, and my longest relationship lasted 8 months. Me and my current gf are very open about past relationships, and she tells me she’s been with a LOT of guys, and I believe her. It seems she had no problem getting sex whenever she wanted.

    We have not told each other our number, but I guess she’s had at the VERY LEAST, three times my number. Only reason we haven’t disclosed it is because when she tells me her #, even though I’m dying to know, it’s gonna hurt me, in big part cause I’m gonna be jealous of her having sooo many partners, when I’ve been unable to have more, I’m gonna feel like I’ve wasted my life…

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  29. Wait i just remembered a few more omg im so embarassed lol so make that 86 guys ive slept with. I know my number is insane but at 29 yrs of age ive never had an std but i have been pregnant like 6 times but my walls are still tight and not loose so i thnk thats awesome considering

  30. More food for thought for you ladies.
    In my experIence, some women confuse being attractive with easy. Just because everyone wants a turn, it doesn’t make you sexy. In men’s eyes, you are just a door knob. Everyone gets a turn. You will never be respected if this is your thinking.

    As a couple ladies stated, women sometimes use promiscuity to try to bolster a damaged ego. It NEVER works, and you will ALWAYS feel worse when you give yourself a chance to think.

    I refuse to sleep with women who are in either mind set. I refuse to be part of their self destruction. I wish more men considered the mental and emotional well being of their partners. Most guys seem to use sex as a better alternative to masturbation.

    You should Never be ashamed of your “number”. Men who are ashamed of your number are not the man for you. Too close minded.

    Always avoid this discussion. It never leads to anything good. This discussion destroyed my marriage due to my promiscuity when i was younger. I was only her third. She felt she had to lie to me and say it was 100. I didn’t care. But she did. Even telling her it was a compliment did not work.

    Last, here is a list of other things to say instead of slut. My attempt at political correctness. And humor.
    Door knob (above)
    Light switch (every one turns you on)
    Practicing for pregnancy
    Auditioning for your next ex.
    Horizontally embracing diversity
    People person.
    Practicing equal opportunist
    A people please
    A TRUE giver.
    Only practicing the golden rule (do unto others as you want done unto you).

    If you actually read all this, kudos. If you really need help, contact me. I’ll steer you in the right direction. You deserve to be proud of you.
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  31. I’m a 44 yo male. My first thought is that some guys are getting sick kicks off this. The listed ages of some posters is disturbing to me.
    My last girl friend (49) had been with over 400 men and 15 women. Who cares? As long as she was only with me when we dated, its just a number.

    It doesn’t reflect on our skills, we all have things to learn. Size isn’t an issue, as long as you do your Kegel exercises. All women should, imo, for the increased pleasure. The somatic effect of knowing you are tight can be an ego boost.

    I’m a feminist, and believe in sexual equality. I despise hypocrisy. Neither sex should be judged by the number of partners they have had. Neither sex should be made to feel that there is some rule on how many partners you have. If you are single, and not hurting anyone, no one should judge you. And if they do, walk away. You don’t need or deserve that. Ever notice that most of the people who do judge are people no one would ever sleep with?

    About me. I was sexually active at 8. I had a 13 yo curious female baby sitter.
    Sexually molested at 9 by my male neighbor.
    My first gbg threesome was at 10.
    By 14 I had been with 7 girls, most multiple times.
    My mother had sex with me at 14. My sister’s did as well.
    By the time I got married at 26, I had been with some 200 women, with only 4 relationships. I never cheated on my wife.
    Divorced at 43 in August last year. I’ve had one girl friend, and slept with 9 women.
    The only std I ever got was from my wife cheating on me.

  32. I’m 21 and I’ve slept with 44 guys. Sounds disgusting I know. I lost my virginity at the age of 15, so this is over 6 years so it’s not like I had them all in one go. Most of these guys were boyfriends. One of whom I was going out with for 3 years. When we broke up I went on self destruct mode, I just wanted to feel needed by someone. Most of these guys used me, they lied and said that they liked/loved me ect. They knew I was in a mentally vunerable place. It still hurts me now but I’ve learnt to have self respect and stop believing little boys lies. I haven’t been with anyone for months. And that’s the way I’m keeping it. If I get a boyfriend, he will have to wait. That’s if anyone would want me if they found out my past.

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  34. I just turned 17 a few days ago.. I’m a female, lost my vcard at 14 & have had sex with 14 guys. 9 of them was when I was 15. I regret all but 2.

  35. 21 almost 22 and I’ve had 16 guys (not including girls). This was making me feel bad but after reading some other numbers I feel much better.

  36. I’m 16 years old and I’m a girl. I’ve slept with 4 guys. I lost it when i was 15. in my group of friends I’m not the worst but I’m not the best really.

  37. Anne Marie :
    It saddens me how much self loathing you can see in some of the comments.

    No shit, Sherlock. A lot of people are having a lot of sex and not enjoying it. Why bother. It’s supposed to be fun :-)

  38. Anonymous :
    I’m a 21 year old college student. I’m very popular on campus and I’m very involved with many organizations including 3 fraternities. I’ve been sexually active since the age of 14 and every since then I’ve been addicted to sex. I’m not cocky nor am I arrogant but I’m very confident in myself. I’ve had many sexual relationships with nothing but women. I do keep an accurate count of how many women I’ve had sex with and the last time I counted I was up to 393. I’ve had over 150 one night stands with many women that I don’t even remember….

    Ha, you win.

  39. I lost my v plates at 11 and have had sex nearly 200 times and sleep with 100 girls and I’m only 15

  40. Iv already posted before but do u guys think sleeping with 39 guys is to much for a 19 year old or any other age oh i lost the v at 17

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  43. That is exactly what I believe. Trying to keep the number of sexual partners low will basically make you someday to accept settling down with somebody that is not really right for you, just so that you don’t make that number any higher. And don’t sell me the virgin until marriage bulshit, how the hell do you know if you have a good sex life with your SO as long as you can’t compare it to anything else!

    Just don’t get pregnant, don’t take any diseases, be responsible. And take care of your reputation, cause that is something that can come back to bite you when you least expect it.

    anon :
    I’ve slept with about 30 and I’m a 48 year old woman, never married. I tell the men who ask I’ve slept with 10 and sometimes even then they are shocked, but frankly I’m surprised at how low the quoted averages are. I’m 48 and lost my virginity at 21, so it has been 17 years. That means I’ve slept with just over 2 men a year, which seems quite low to me when you think of how many opportunities there are for women. I’ve slept with almost everyone i kissed (usually after about the third date) and then gone out with person typically for a few months. To me kissing is every bit as intimate as sex. I’ve never had an STD and I’ve always had a test after every relationship- and made my boyfriends get one too- not to mention practicing safe sex.
    People who have been in long relationships confuse the low scores they have with how fussy they are. I think how fussy you are (at least for a woman) is more accurately predicted by the gaps between relationships. The number of relationships just show how successful those relationships were. I typically finish with a man after 3 months if he doesn’t love me or I don’t love them, because research has shown that if people aren’t in love by then they probably never will be. That means you end alot of relationships.
    Still we shouldn’t even be having this conversation about women in 2012. Men who worry about this sort of thing should deal with their problems of low self esteem and mind their own business. and if you want a woman with a low average marry a woman who doesn’t like sex that much and then you can spend the rest of your life having sex once every 3 years like she did before she met you.

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  45. Je t’aime Paris :
    I lost my virginity when I was 16. I’m now a 21 year old female and I’ve been with about 30 – 35 guys. I feel horrible about it and wish I could take it all back. It was a low point in my life, and though that is no excuse people have no right to judge me or anyone else. Just because I made more than a few mistakes certainly does not mean I “have no morals”. I was younger, and naïve, and going through a very rough time in my life. I’ve found God and he has healed me of the pain and disgust that I brought upon myself. I was very fortunate to have never gotten an STD (most of my partners used protection other than a few that I dated).

    It sounds as if you let society decide what your value is. Don’t devalue yourself, embrace your sexuality. I don’t see the purpose of all these negative comments. Its obvious the majority of you guys are immature and ignorant.

  46. I’m 17 I’ve had four guys. A few girls but I don’t count girls. I thought I was kinda slutty but it seems I’m not. But my circumstance make mine worse too, one had a gf. One was my ex, and I’d been with him before but after he was with someone I went back and had a one night stand with him. Actually my first had a gf, or three or some shit so I never really hooked up with a guy that didn’t lie and cheat or convince me he was single and not be

  47. 30 years, female, have had sex with 20 guys. Been sexually active since 16. I regret having some of those experiences,but not because that makes “my number” too high but simply because they were not fun and not worth my time. And a few times I ended up being hurt, which is of course the least desirable case. No unwanted pregnancies ever and no STD’s. I live in a very judgmental society, so I never told this to anyone except for my husband. But I guess the only thing that matters is that I don’t judge myself.

  48. I’m 18, lost my virginity to my boyfriend at 15 then we broke up and I was with another guy for 2 years and had sex with him too, then we broke up. I’ve now had sex with 6 guys.

  49. Also, it’s very troubling to see some of the judgment on comments below. You never know what someone may be going through.

  50. I lost my virginity when I was 16. I’m now a 21 year old female and I’ve been with about 30 – 35 guys. I feel horrible about it and wish I could take it all back. It was a low point in my life, and though that is no excuse people have no right to judge me or anyone else. Just because I made more than a few mistakes certainly does not mean I “have no morals”. I was younger, and naïve, and going through a very rough time in my life. I’ve found God and he has healed me of the pain and disgust that I brought upon myself. I was very fortunate to have never gotten an STD (most of my partners used protection other than a few that I dated).

  51. Lord have Mercy I feel good about my number and for my age. Lol I’m 20 going on 21 and I have sex with 5 guys and oral sex with 3 out of those 5 guys. I lost my virginity at 16 to the ” Hot guy” in school After me and my current boyfriend broke up(It was bleh). Then 10 months later I met a guy now 17 and had sex with him 4 months into the relationship (Mistakes) he was a douche bag. Then a month after that I got back with my current boyfriend of now 3 years and we finally cealed the deal after 8 months. (Longer you wait pays off). A year in a half into our relationship things got rockey and we broke up and then i had sex with two guys over a time span of a year dated both. Two great guys didn’t work because I was madly in Love with my current bf. Well that’s my story folks.lol oh and I still speak to 4 out of 5 of my sexual partners. One is now my Great friends.

  52. Ashamed :
    I’m a month away from being 16 and I’m ashamed. I tried growing up way too fast. I lost my virginity when I was 13, and over the years have had plenty of oral sex with both genders, and multiple sex partners. Around 14-16 people, dude that’s like my age number.. I feel disgusted with myself because I’m just a baby, still a kid.. I’m ashamed of myself and my actions and I strongly regret trying to act older. If you are still a virgin or with a low number, I strongly suggest you keep it that way because being called names and having a bad rep, isn’t the easiest or best thing to have to live with especially in a small town.

    You sound like my ex. Shes 15 and has already fucked 8 different guys since we broke up. Shes a typical high school slut with daddy issues. Its disgusting. She has no morals or respect. Half the guys shes fucked are already in there 20s! Rumors of her getting “tag teamed” are floating around the school.

  53. Female, African American, 20 year old college student. Lost virginity at 16, meaningless sex with 20 guys so on avg 5 per year

  54. I’m a month away from being 16 and I’m ashamed. I tried growing up way too fast. I lost my virginity when I was 13, and over the years have had plenty of oral sex with both genders, and multiple sex partners. Around 14-16 people, dude that’s like my age number.. I feel disgusted with myself because I’m just a baby, still a kid.. I’m ashamed of myself and my actions and I strongly regret trying to act older. If you are still a virgin or with a low number, I strongly suggest you keep it that way because being called names and having a bad rep, isn’t the easiest or best thing to have to live with especially in a small town.

  55. 34 years old and married with a boyfriend on the side. have had over 50 partners. while married. i mean i cheated on my husband AND my boyfriend if that’s possible. do anything the guy wants. any position. always a bj. always swallow. only guy i’ve ever had orgasm with is my boyfriend for some reason. had several threesomes with husband. then gone back and had sex with the third guy by myself. threesomes with my another guy and a girl too. been with three or four girls. didn’t get much out of it. many one night stands. easy to travel for work and do a pickup in a bar. usually exchange numbers and try it like twice after that. best sex of life is with boyfriend and i don’t want to cheat on him as well as my husband but i always do. just got back from trip to florida to sort out my marriage problems. talked to my boyfriend on the phone the whole time. called my boyfriend as i was taking a guy to my room. told him the guy was with me. said i wouldn’t do anything and hung up. screwed the guy and felt terrible. have done three guys in a single day several times. hard to cheat on a husband and a husband at the same time and remain sane. have no idea why i do this because sex with boyfriend is wonderful.

  56. I’m 16 and I have had ZERO partners ….. I’m still a virgin , I find absolutely weird how some if all had 10+ partners within a 1 year span… I don’t even find that many guys attractive within a year span . I’m not trying to judge but getting to double digits and even tripple is way too fucking much . I honestly don’t get how some of yall have had 20-30 partners and haven’t contracted any STD/STI/HIV. I guess some people just love sex THAT much . Overall some of yall motherfuckers are lying I bet . If anybody disagrees with what i’m saying I don’t give 2 fucks about what you have to say .

  57. I’ve been reading this post and I’m alarmed at most of the women on here. I’m a professional prideful man and I would really find it alarming to find out NY mate has been with that many guys. I guess I’m old school because I imaging trying to settled own with a woman who has more men than a b.ball squad. Real men respect the virtue of a woman who cares about herself and I don’t think most of you do. I feel it should be one partner every your. Not the amount reported.

  58. I lost mine at 14yrs old I’m 18yrs old right now and been with 12 sex partners that i can remember.
    I feel horrible for now I’ve been only having sex with my bf but i know he would hate me if he knew my sex life even tho he was my first one.

  59. Lost virginity at mid 16. Slept with 41 women (only counting penetration) and BJ by one guy (Used a condom) over the next year. Moved to Ottawa and going through a year long dry spell but might go on for another year if i don’t have sex this summer. Dry spell cause I don’t know how to shack up with high school girls.

  60. I’m 16 and I lost my virginity at 15 with a guy I dated for 8 months. Since then I’ve had sex with 3 other guys. 1 I was dating and the other two we were just having sex. I don’t regret it because I love having sex with no strings or attachments . Just fun , because you are only young once in your life and its no time to be selfish . You don’t have any real responsibilities like that adults have to face. Of course I use protection , and I’m careful about who I have sex with. But is it wrong to just have fun sometimes?

  61. Lost my virginity at 13 to a guy I was dating for over a year. I am now 22 years old and have had sex with over 30 men. I tried to make up a list but kept forgetting names so I’m just gunna leave it al low 30’s. Am I ashamed? No. I’m young and having fun not interested in a relationship. I love sex and I figured I might as well get it All out of my system before I decide to Settle down. Screw stereotypes, men are praised for sleeping with dozens of women, yet women are looked down upon. Just use protection and your fine :)

  62. I am 23 I lost my virginity at 14, and I have had 200 people I believe. I might be over counting that (since I lost count a long time ago I might still be in the 100’s) I am very ashamed of my number and I will be the first to admit that when I was younger I was a “slut” but in mmy defense, I was raped at 14 and after that I tried my hardest to get it back, or to at least go back and make the moment special like it should have been. I have only had 2 one-night stands, the rest were actually guys I thought loved me. I am happy to say I have calmed down and don’t even really date anymore.

  63. But im not ashamed. Because I knew before I did it, that its what I wanted. So f what people think of my sex life.

  64. Im 17. I lost my virginity at 13.. ive had sex with 8 guys and 2 girls. But 3 of the guys I ended up stopping.. so sometimes I dont count them.

  65. Damn, reading some of these comments makes me feel better about my number but then again it helps to come to the realization that I have no idea why my number is so high. I keep a list and I don’t know why? I’m not ashamed of myself but I will never say my real number to anyone. I love sex but I want something passionate. I don’t know…I just don’t know…

    19 years old..
    lost virginity at 15
    I made it to having 20 different men today.

  66. Im 21 nd 22 soon. I’ve been with 18 guys. Guys that were my boyfriends. 3 were guys I thought liked me but didn’t. My boyfriend and are not doing well bc of that and i don’t know what to do I love him but I can not changed who I’ve been with. But I don’t know what to do.

  67. I lost my virginity when I was 15 to a guy I was with for 9 months (at the time) but ended up being with him for a year and a half. We broke up; I’m now 17 and have now slept with a total of 6 guys.

  68. I lost my virginity at 16 to a guy i was in love with. I’m 17 now. & i’ve had 4 other partners since then. So, 5 total.

  69. im 13 and lost it at 11 , ive had sex with over 6 guys 15 times .. and i afraid to tell my boyfriend about my past :( i truly regret it . the first time i did it , it was peer pressure , then soon it went into a addiction . BUT THANK GOD I STOPPED .

  70. I’m 17. Lost virginity at age 14. Regret all 9 in total. But to be honest, only 2 showed me how real sex is. The others were just hit and quit. Someday in the future I will find someone special to make real love to but for now I’m just chillin and haven’t had sex since then. Atleast I’m proud of that and stopped and stayed with the total of 9 men.👌

  71. I’m 17 years old and I have had sex with 23 guys .. Does that mean I’m a ho? Am I addicted to sex? Why do people judge me? The sex I’ve had has been over a period of time. My hole is still tight bc of the wait in between . But still is that too many people? Advice?

  72. Born 17 years ago next month, lost it at 15 have had sex with 21 guys, got an std from one who had sex with me when i was half passed out in my bed drunk, suffering from sex addiction and yes i do hate myself for the number

  73. I tried counting, its embarrassing cause I don’t know, the sad thing is I don’t even remember some of their names and I recall some after some few minutes, so I stopped counting.

  74. I am 21 years old lost my virginity at 18.
    I had 30 sex partners.
    I love sex but I want a relationship.
    In Miami, fl is hard to find a guy who doesn’t want to get in your pants.
    But sometimes I think the issue is me.
    From 30 sex partners only had orgasms with 2 men.
    I just like the way how men love how I make them feel.
    Sex to me is a drug and I get addicted fast.
    They make me feel like I am the best.
    & of course I am but I don’t want this life no more.
    But I keep falling into it because of the temptations & my ego.
    People understand yea sex is amazing but your always going to have that emptiness your looking for.

  75. I am sixteen years old.
    I have had sex with thirteen people. (Fourteen counting oral sex)
    I lost my virginity when I was fifteen.
    I am not proud of what I’ve done but its too late to take it back now.
    I wasn’t in a relationship with any of them.
    I regreat all but five of them.
    I still have one fuck buddy now.

  76. I’m 15 and a half. I lost my virginity at age 13. I’ve had sex with 9 guys total. First time I had sex was with a guy I was with for two and a half years. Two were one night stands two were friends with benefits and the rest were people I was in a relationship with. I’m not proud of my past but it happened.

  77. I am 23 and I’ve had sex with 26 men. I lost my virginity at 15.
    Two of them I regret but all the rest have been great. I would never ever tell my current partner so I am kind of ashamed but inside I am ok with it because I am really good at it and I seriously love sex :)

  78. Female, 18, I lost my virginity at 15, and have been with 9 men, and 1 woman since then. 8 of them I dated, and the other 2 where one night stands.

  79. I had sex with 20 guys, & gave 2 blowjobs with no sex.
    I lost my virginity at at 13 or 14..I’m 17 now with 1 kid…

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  82. Im a 21 y.o woman,I lost my virginity at 14. I’ve been with 41 guys, 10 were boyfriends the rest were fuck buddies…and 1 girl = 42 sexual partners. now I have decided to stop having sex since the last guy I was with gave me herpes.

  83. There is nothing “Fine” with having sex with people you don’t know…….. And to Anon He/She must be fine only in the bed!

  84. Sex is a act for love GOD created sex for reproducing but with Love and Feeling for whoever that may be “Casual” Sex is disgusting…. How can anyone have Sex with someone they don’t know or have feelings for or even care? It is a selfish disgraceful act People may talk about the Bible It repeats Sex outside Marriage is a sin meaning Sex with someone you don’t love is a sin even Sex before marriage is……..

  85. You are a easy screw Nothing more….. SEX is an ACT of LOVE! Passion is a form of love You don’t feel Passion towards someone you don’t know very well or don’t care for You have been sexually assaulted? of course it is not your fault for that But clearly you self esteem is down the toilet You don’t respect yourself or others If I were with you I would leave you Wouldn’t want to be WITH ANYONE promiscuous Sex obviously means NOTHING for you so what will it mean in a relationship? Nothing Sex for you Is “Fun” and is “not a big deal” Society influenced you heavily shame

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  87. I’m 19 female, and I’ve had 8 sex partners. Unprotected with more than half. I feel really bad. I just recently got tested & discovered I contracted an STI. Sex is serious, I just wish I would have thought more of the consequences before I got caught up in each moment.

  88. I’m 19 female, & I’ve had 8 sexual partners.. 4 of which were boyfriends. The other 4 flings. I feel really bad, but it helps to know I’m not alone

  89. Im 22 female and have sex wit 30 men and 4 females, I’m not mad at my number I’m happy and enjoyed my sex life and all females should its just a number and you only live once.

  90. I’m chinese and losing my V card was the worst thing that ever happened to me. Haunted me forever.

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  92. 21 year old female.
    Lost virginity at 17.
    9 sexual partners (11 if you count oral sex)
    (All males)
    2 relationships / 7 one nighters including 2 threesomes.
    Girls just wanna have fun ~~~

  93. Well i my innocence was taken from me when i was 5 and i lost my virginity when i was 7. Since then i have had sex with:
    6 girls, 1 foursome, 5 threesomes ( one was 2 brothers), 8 one night stands, and 34 guys. Total of 55 people. These are the ones i can remember about once a year i get an email from someone telling me about when we had sex and i dont remember it. The last one i married and thats all for me. I agree it creates soul ties

  94. I am a 24 yr old female have had sex with 8 boyfriends and then about 10 or 12 one night stands. Lost my virginity at age 17. I never admit to the one night stands cuz everytime i was wasted and quite frankly its embarassing haha

  95. dave :
    my girlfriend i love very much ive only been with her but sadly shes had relationships with 3 other guys and had sex with all of them multiple times it eats me up inside i hate it… i dont really know what to do should i just break up with her because idk if ill ever get over it

    Well, you’ll have to get over it. Because almost anyone else you date will have been with other people too and you’ll have to deal with it again and again. If you love her so much, why would you break up with her over something like that?

  96. my girlfriend i love very much ive only been with her but sadly shes had relationships with 3 other guys and had sex with all of them multiple times it eats me up inside i hate it… i dont really know what to do should i just break up with her because idk if ill ever get over it :(

  97. I’m a 21 year old female. I lost my virginity when I was 20 and I’ve had sex with 14 guys. (yikes) oh well. I like sex. Of those 14 I’ve probably only used a condom with 5. I know I know I’m embarrassed, you’re judging me. Getting checked Thursday, fingers crossed X-|

  98. Hi I’m 19 an female and my number is 10.

    I lost my virginity at 17 to my first love after we’d been dating for 4 months. I’m glad it was to him as we really cared about each other. We broke up a year and a half ago and since then I’ve slept with 9 other guys! A couple one night stands that I never want to happen again cos they’ve left me feeling cheap and dirty, especially when you don’t know them in the first place! I’ve seen a few guys and tended to use sex as a way to “seal the deal” but coming to realise what a naieve and stupid view it is as they take what they want and move on! What I’ve learnt. Save it to have it with someone who is willing to stick around to make love and not just to bang.

  99. Im 26. Lost virginity at 18 and in 3 years had sex with 30 men and I think 1 woman? Nowdays I am relaxed just one more and now just my partner.

  100. sophie :
    urm, im 16 and have been with 10 guys, and i have only lost my virginity in september 2011, i was also in a relationship for 4 month in this time, it is now october 2012, is that bad?

  101. urm, im 16 and have been with 10 guys, and i have only lost my virginity in september 2011, it is now october 2012, is that bad?

  102. I’m 32, lost my virginity at 23 and I’ve been with 6 women and 1 man. I only swapped oral sex with the guy and neither of us came.

    I don’t feel that I have had enough partners, but I’m pretty misanthropic, so I have no idea how I’m going to increase that number. Having more than 10 sexual partners is something I want to put on my bucket list, but I can’t decide how important sex is too me. Yes, I want to have more sex, but I have a lot of problems talking to people, almost anyone, which makes it very hard to find people to have sex with.

    I pretty sure I know how I feel about my partner having more experience than I do. All of the woman I have been with have been more sexually experienced than I have and I don’t see why any other people I have sex with in the future will have less experience than myself.
    I lost my virginity to a 48 year old woman who had been having sex for 8 years longer than I had been alive.
    My next girlfriend was 20 (i was 23), had lost her virginity 10 months earlier and had slept with 4 guys before me. We broke up after 6 months because I was leaving her country and I know that she racked up 14 guys in two years.
    The next woman was 47 years old, I was still 23. I don’t know her sexual history, but she had undoubtably had more sex than I had at that point.
    When I was 25 I met a 32 year old woman who had been with 60 guys and one woman. She was an amazing woman, it was a shame that we lived in different countries.
    Next was the guy, I don’t know what he had done previously.
    The next woman was a girlfriend, 26 while I was 28. She had been with 8 guys and 2 girls.
    The last woman was about 18 months ago. She is the same age as me, but while I don’t know how many partners she shas had, I know that she has been with quite a few guys. A few threesomes, at least one foursome, at least one woman, though she really isn’t into that kind of thing.

  103. I’m male 30 and I lost my virginity quite late at 19. I have slept with 22 girls so far which equals to 2 a year. But I haven’t had sex since 2009. Ugh I feel so dirty.. I am now a born again virgin and it will stay that way for a looong time. I’m sick and tired of girls trying to get me drunk and rape me and use me all the time. And no I’m not gay or bi so all u pervs can go to hell!!

  104. Ben :

    Justme :
    I can’t believe the amount of filthy sluts on here.
    Why do you girls feel the need to f*ck so many guys? I’m 33, male, and I’ve been with 4 girls\ since I was 18.
    If every girl was like the girls on here, I’d stay single for the rest of my life. You all disgust me!

    I totally agree dude. like wff is this shit? i think that girls want it more than we do believe it or not. they’re just more in the closet about it. but yeah the numbers ive seen on here give me nausea. I’m 23 and have slept with 12 women in all. and I thought that I had a promiscuity issue……….not really…… in comparison to what ive seen on here. its fuckin nasty. you and me are on the same page with this.

    I wonder why you’ve slept with so few. If you are looking for someone nasty take a look at yourself dude.. so bitter!

  105. I’ve slept with about 30 and I’m a 48 year old woman, never married. I tell the men who ask I’ve slept with 10 and sometimes even then they are shocked, but frankly I’m surprised at how low the quoted averages are. I’m 48 and lost my virginity at 21, so it has been 17 years. That means I’ve slept with just over 2 men a year, which seems quite low to me when you think of how many opportunities there are for women. I’ve slept with almost everyone i kissed (usually after about the third date) and then gone out with person typically for a few months. To me kissing is every bit as intimate as sex. I’ve never had an STD and I’ve always had a test after every relationship- and made my boyfriends get one too- not to mention practicing safe sex.
    People who have been in long relationships confuse the low scores they have with how fussy they are. I think how fussy you are (at least for a woman) is more accurately predicted by the gaps between relationships. The number of relationships just show how successful those relationships were. I typically finish with a man after 3 months if he doesn’t love me or I don’t love them, because research has shown that if people aren’t in love by then they probably never will be. That means you end alot of relationships.
    Still we shouldn’t even be having this conversation about women in 2012. Men who worry about this sort of thing should deal with their problems of low self esteem and mind their own business. and if you want a woman with a low average marry a woman who doesn’t like sex that much and then you can spend the rest of your life having sex once every 3 years like she did before she met you.

  106. I am 22 & I have been with 25 men & 2 girls. I had fun while it lasted & don’t regret anything. I am now in a committed relationship with a 2 year old son & my boyfriend will be my only partner from now on :)

  107. I’m a 36 year old female from the uk. I’ve been with 114 men that I can count although I was married and faithful for 7 years. I wish I could turn back the clock despite having a great time. Envy couples that stay together all of their lives. Interesting reading the comments

  108. It’s a bit depressing realising that the crap sex life I’ve got is all I’m ever going to have. One partner, I’m 47 and male

  109. Also, on that note, I ended up having anal with 3 of those guys on multiple occasions. Gals…seriously. Save yourself. Don’t allow yourself to be pulled in to temptation. It causes soul ties…

  110. I’m 23 and have slept with 20+ guys. I lost my virginity at 9 and it went downhill from there. There were a couple years that I did well and only slept with two. Last year I moved back to where I grew up and over doubled my original number of 10. Minus the 2 constant boyfriends and the 3 fwb, all were 1-2 night stands. I wish I could count the number of times I’ve had sex on one hand but I can’t and what has happened has happened. I just Praise God He protected me from any STD’s since all but 3 of the 20+ were unprotected. If I had kept at the rate I was going, I’d currently be at 80+…

  111. Caramel Foxxx :
    I’m 17 year old girl. I’ve slept with 5 guys. The guy I lost my vCard to at 16, 3 guys i met in one week, and one other guy I met the week after.

    That’s pretty extensive situationally for a girl in high school…..you sure your 17?

  112. I’m 17 year old girl. I’ve slept with 5 guys. The guy I lost my vCard to at 16, 3 guys i met in one week, and one other guy I met the week after.

  113. I am a male, 16 years old, i have only had sex with my girlfriend. she was my first kiss, i lost my virginity to her, and she is my first love. Sadly, this is not the same for her. she loves me more than anything, but sadly i am not her first for everything. I would never take back what i have done, but every day the thought of her being with anther guy eats away at me. every single day. i would never give her up, i love her with all my heart, but im her fourth… Please ladies, save yourself for the right person

  114. Im 25 year old female…lost virginity at 16, I’ve had 20 sexual partners…1 rape 1 booty call…a few taken advantage of me same time they were one night stands…1 relatIonshIp lasted a year and had a son wIth hIm who Is now 4,and the rest just guys I really liked but they ended up just leaving me…I regret 1 out of those and I have a bf now who loves and cares for me and wish I would have waited to lose it to him…

  115. Im 18. had sex with one girl, didnt like it. Was a one night stand. Now with a dude.(yes im gay) We are waiting for a few months before having sex. V committed relationship.

  116. I am 32 year old male, not born in the US. I have been living here for 10 yrs now. I was a VIRGIN (no oral or fooling around) till I was 30 and then got married, the arranged way and been loyal to my wife so far !!

  117. i had sex for the first time at the age of 17. within that first year i had 23 male partners and 10 female partners. Got married at 18 to a man who wanted to share me and the list grew to 35 men and 12 women. I just left my husband a month ago and i have managed to add 5 more to my list of males. I know its a high number and for that reason i have downsized my number so low that i almost get caught in my own lie. my new intrest thinks i have only slept with 8 men and 2 women inluding him and not 52. I feel terrible about it and its eating me up inside but i cant bare to tell him the truth. Women still have to uphold the image of purity while men can poke any hole he pleases and his praised for it and it pisses me off

  118. I’m 17 female, lost v at 16 was raped a couple times by ppl I cared about lost all my self respect my familys fucked mums depressed hates on me shows no love I hate relationships! Don’t let myself feel for no1 so I just have casual sex my councellor said I’m addicted as I have no self control, I use sex as a way to feel close to someone without emotions after ,I’ve slept with over 50 men, lost count tbh, trying to change aint had sex in 2 months killing me slowly, I want healthy sex but am scared to show real love because I don’t no how to its so fucked my life sucks!

  119. I’ve slept with 3 and I felt horrible about it. I lost my virginity at 17 to my first love. When we broke up, I felt so lonely and ended up getting together with another guy who then became my new bf. The last guy was a person I was seeing and really liked. He really pressured me into doing it and I regret every bit of it. After that one time, we never did it again and quickly stopped dating. I felt so sad and depressed after this. I found Jesus and he helped heal my brokeness that came along with having sex outside of marriage. There’s no arguing that having multiple sex partners does some damage. Anyways I turned my life over to him and he healed me of my guilt and shame. I feel so free now! I know my number isn’t as high as some you on here but no matter then number, Jesus is waiting for you and willing to forgive. No number is too high for him. He’s waiting to rescue you and just wants you to ask. He wants you to run into his arms so he can heal that brokeness and void inside of you. I say this with all my love and sincerity because he’s really changed me and shown me he’s real. Love you all :)

  120. Anonymous :
    I’m an 18 y/o female and have had one sexual partner, my boyfriend of nearly 2 years. Am I missing out?

    Yeah, trust me, you are.

  121. I just turned 18 and I’ve had 13 sex partners, 10 of them being friends with benefits or one night stands.
    I guess the average person would consider me a slut (my mom found out for 5 of the guys because of obvious reasons and complications) and even she calls me a slut.
    I just like sex ! And I like to live my life, with safety of course, I’m serious about that stuff.

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  123. am 22 have had 17. Including my current boyfriend. We have been together for 3years. I am ashamed of this number as most of my friends have hade 5 max. I just feel am different. And i love to explore my sexuality. But i dont plan to make it any higher. Am gonna marry my boyfriend. He is the best

  124. I’m 17 and I’ve slept with 9 guys since I was 15 when I lost my virginity.
    I still have regular sex (few times a week) with a few of them, it’s my body. Remember you can choose who you want to have sex with, just make sure you won’t regret it later, I certainly do regret a few men!
    Some people see me as a slut because I have multiple sexual partners, I don’t care, Sex is fun and healthy, well healthy as long as you’re taking care of your body :)

  125. I am 44 and have slept with 198 woman that I can remember and I’m sure there are another 20 or 30 that I can’t. To all you young guys out there do yourself a favor and keep an accurate record because you will always wonder about it later in life.

  126. I’m 19 and female. lost my virginity at 13. Regret that. Since then i’ve slept with 7 other people. So that would be a total of 8. I’ve lied about my number before cause I felt like 8 was too much and I am ashamed to have slept with a couple of the people that I have, so i’ve lied.

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  128. I’m a 20 year old female, lost my virginity at 16, and have had 25+ partners. None of them were relationships and I do not regret any of them. I’m a grown woman, I protect myself, take birth control, and get tested regularly, and I know what I am doing. Maybe to people I’m considered a “slut”, but really I’m just a woman who loves sex and doesn’t want a relationship. There is no attention seeking or love seeking through sex for me. To me sex is an act that gives you pleasure and personally I think it’s the best feeling in the world to have someone pleasure you and not having to have any strings attached with them. It’s ironic that someone like me has no children (no abortions either), no stds, a good career already, and a beautiful head on my shoulders while most people my age have had sex with what? 5-10 people and they’re all carrying around babies, working at fast food joints, and HATING their babies father/mother. Point is being a “slut” hasn’t held me down or prevented me from accomplishing my hopes and dreams. It’s just sex. It doesn’t matter how many people you sleep with you’re still you regardless of your number.

  129. I’m 15 and I lost my virginity to my exboyfriend when I was 13. We waited almost 4 months before we did do anything with each other but then we broke up during the 9th month of the relationship. Since then I have had sex with 9 other people. I didn’t have feelings for any of the other 9. They were all just hot guys that hit on me during parties. I love sex and I am easy and gave in. I would take every single one of them back besides the first if I could. The short amount of fun isn’t worth the regret and shame I feel everyday. I can’t even talk to my mom about any of it because it would break her heart. Please, young girls and guys, be smart! I promise you it’s not fun afterwards.

  130. I lost my virginity at the age of 16, we had been dating for a month or so and continued dating off and on for about 8 months afterwards. 6 months after we broke up I had sex with another guy I had only been dating for a couple days, and that just happened recently. But I am still currently dating him. I knew both guys for years before I did anything with them. If my current relationship doesn’t work out I don’t plan on having sex until I’ve been with the guy for a long time because I regret giving it up so quickly both times that I did. 

  131. i am 17 and i lost my virginity when i was turning 16 i have had sex with 6 guys and i feel like a whore

  132. Im 16 .. Ive Been With 5 Guys..
    I Felt Like A Whore After The Last Guy .. But After Reading These Comments I Dont Anymore..

  133. im 14 lost my virgiinity at 13 to my ex boyfriend who then left me, hes such a jerk. And iv had sex over 15 times with 6 different guys. I regret all of them. I just wish i was a virgin still. Its true when people say being young is being dumb. I hope god forgives me inshallah

  134. i’m 16, i lost my virginity to my first serious boyfriend a year and a half ago. since then i’ve had sex with another 8 guys which makes me feel like such a slut and i do regret, especially since only 1 other one was a boyfriend

  135. I lost my virginity at 13 it was a rape I’ve had sex with 10 guys I’m 16 I feel like a whore but guys promised to be with me and stuff then they leave me :( I regret everytime I’ve had sex I wish I was a virgin I honestly do I wAnt to turn back time and be a virgin and wait till marriage I hope god forgives me for my sins

  136. I’m 15I lost my virginity to my girlfriend when I was 13 we took each others virginity well over time we broke up when I was 14 almost 15 and we made a promise to each other not to ever do anything with anyone else unless we had been with them for a long time, well she went and fucked two guys that she barely knew, and I stayed faithful to her that whole time we werent together I kept that promise to her, I developed so much hate for her and i ruined her whole reputation well a year passed and were now back together and she’s having my kid in January, having sex with someone should be more important to you then anything make sure it’s worth it. Oh and trust me always rap it pull out doesn’t work now my life’s over and ima have a kid in 6 months im only 15

  137. I just turned 18 a few weeks ago. And I’ve had sex with 8 guys and got raped by 3 different guys. This whole thing has made me feel a lot better for myself and not in a bad way. I feel better that I’m not the only one who thinks I’m a whore. All guys I had feelings for and I regret most. I am so scared to tell my recent boyfriend who I’ve been with for 8 months that I’m at 8 and he’s number 8. I cry myself to sleep most nights thinking that I’m a whore and if I tell him he’ll end it with me. Dude I don’t think she’s a whore. Each guy I had sex with I had feelings for and I admit to being easy back then especially when your young and believe anything and are a hopeless romantic. I think that if she’s telling you she cares about you enough to not lie to you and to be honest. Would you rather not know? Then you shouldn’t have asked honestly. My boyfriend has been with two girls as of when he lost his vCard at 17 and is now 18. He lost it to a girl he was with for three years and then he got with me and we waited two months. Dude, if you love her you have to get over it. It was before she met you and she loves you. I’m thinking of telling my boyfriend tomorrow being honest. I love him and if he hates me or breaks up with me well I guess I’ll know he never loved me and it wouldn’t have worked out anyway. But honesty is hard to find. Be thankful she has it. Cause I’d want my boyfriend to be honest. If someone had sex with people they care about they aren’t whores. They are just easy hopeless romantics. I’ve been there and I don’t care if my boyfriend had slept with 30 girls if he was just with me and loves me I’d be with him. People who are virgins I respect you and am jealous of you. I wish everyday I still was and would’ve waited cause I regret most all of my ex partners. Sex should be about love and I believe j was to young then to understand what love really was.

  138. Im 24 and i have been with 10 diff. Guys scince i was 13 ! 2 I was drunk, 1 I was married to, 6 were 1 night stands, 1 I lost my virginity to! I remember all of them and still talk to most!

  139. Thought I’d just say something in defence of sleeping around . I met a girl when I was 19, fell in love and married her. All good. Since then she has almost completely gone off sex and we hardly ever make love, 2/3 times a year! I still love her but god I wish I’d had more partners when the opportunity presented itself. I’m 46 and had 1 sexual partner in my life

  140. Good for you,goes to show it’s a lot to do with how your raised as a child,I’m glad there’s some girls and guys who respect the true meaning of sex :-)

  141. Might I also add, people are shocked when they find out my number and immediately think i’m lying. I’m on birth control and I still use protection. It’s simply having respect for my body and loving myself enough to do so. There are some good kids left..

  142. Hey there! Just really wanted to share my story with you all. I’m 18, I lost my virginity at 16.. but I was the last of my friends to do so. I’ve had 2 sexual partners, but my friends have had up to 12. The whole topic really confuses me and makes me unsure. I have a friend that just turned 16 and has had sex with like 15 guys. I don’t judge, but at least 3 of my friends have gotten a STD. And they also share partners. It’s crazy how the times has change. My mother’s always taught me to keep the partners i’ve had on one hand. I was just raised that way. The other night at a party, a guy was hitting on me, but he had sex with 2 of my friends that same night and i literally laughed in his face and told him to get tested. I really wish girls my age would change their morals.

  143. I guess the only thing that matters is that you love who your currently with more than all others, it’s just easier too find that love when your partners aren’t hanging over their head.

  144. Also, if you find a relationship, you can sleep with that person an unlimited amount of times and its still only one partner. Remember that.

  145. There are few things in life that have meaning nowadays. Every moral we had as a society is slipping away. We fuck who we please and don’t have real love anymore. Granted there are a few people out there who still keep these things that used to be cherished in high regards. Tell me you can feel like you mean everything to your wife/husband when they’ve fucked 20 other people before you? You ever heard the term making love? Nowadays that doesn’t exist. It’s just meaningless sex. I’m interested in a girl who’s had multiple threesomes and a fivesome, how am I suppose to develop something meaningful with a girl who doesnt care about who she fucks? Would I just be another number in the end? Does it feel better to love someone when your a part of a group of twenty or group of five? It makes you feel like you mean something to them!!! Be in the select few who meant something to someone not the 21st “partner”.

  146. Not being judgemental here but,maybe I’m a little old fashioned,I think that anyone who sleeps around are either seeking attention or love through sex,but without any commitment are naive to think it isn’t going to impact on your lifelong partner in the future,we all make mistakes but you learn from them and move on,a lot of women just think it’s ok to sleep around with as many partners as they can,and think they will meet a nice man who will accept this,ask yourself if your future husband had slept with a high number of women,would you be ok with it,most people would say no.sex is a sacred act that should be with someone you love,not in drunken benders or FB I personally think it’s sad that women have so little respect for there bodies.

  147. I am a 19 year old female and I have had sex with 18 people. 4 in a past relationships, 6 friends with benefits, 7 drunk hookups and 1 current relationship. I remember each person and it was always consensual and usually initiated by me. I lost my virginity at 15 to a guy I dated for a year and a half. After we broke up I dated someone else for three months, we had sex and then I didn’t have sex again until I was 18. So I have had sex with 16 guys in a years time. I am not at all ashamed or embarrassed. I have never gotten any type of STI or anything of the sort. I do not plan to continue having sex at the rate I was at, because I want commitment and I know I will not get that if I continue to sleep around. My motto about sex is, “If its consensual and no one is getting hurt who cares, we are all adults here.”

  148. I was 18 when I lost my viginity to a 23 year old. Had sex one night stand kinda thing he was my friend. But then almost a year later I had sex with another friend and. Then a few months later with my boyfriend. Well I have now had sex with my current bf. And I thought that my number being 4 was bad. Well in todays generation girls in middle school (6th grade) are getting pregnant. So having sex is really getting to young ppl. I’m 20 now bout to be 21 and I have had sex with 4 guys. Most girls who are 15 have had sex with 10. I now know more girls who are young who have had sex with more guys than women who are 30 and 40. The average numbers have been going up for a women 20 to 25 they have had sex with atleast 10 to 15 ppl. I honstly don’t know what this world is coming to when a parent is ok with there 10 year old having sex. And having multiple parteners at that. But its the way its starting to be.

  149. Can I please have your views on this.

    I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 14 months now,she is 28 years old,when we first dated we spoke about previous sexual partners,and if we had been tested,we both said we had been tested which is fine,and I said I’d had 7 previous partners including a marriage that lasted many years,she said at first 6 partners then months later felt obliged to change that number to 35 but only eleven intercourse partners,which surprised me I thought why she lying about this,and I questioned her nut she replied she wanted me to know the truth,I said ok fine is that the truth,she replied yes,and about 8 months later she has confessed to 34 slept with partners,I’m now pretty devastated with the constant lies,the number isn’t such a big issue with me but why lie consistently,your opinions please lady and gents.

  150. am 19 lost my v-card a few months before my 18th bday..i feel like a whore but am praying about it!!i have had sex with 13 guys till early june..4 one night stands i regret all of them…i thought of sharing this probly it will help..i have lied to guys telling them i have only had sex for 3 times am reallt ashmed ot buh am hopin albe over this real soon

  151. I don’t think it’s fair that girls are being slut-shamed like mad on this comment thread – surely the point of the honest answers was to openly accept sex, be it with 1 person or 100? I’m 18 years old. I lost my virginity at 16, and I’ve had sex with over 200 men. Some from work as a prostitute, some for fun, some out of love. Sex, for me and probably many other girls, isn’t a big deal. I have been raped three times, and none of them were in any way my fault – does a virgin deserve to be raped? – and this has had the effect of destroying any emotional attachment I have to sex. I naturally have a very high sex-drive, and I enjoy intimacy – so, to me, what better way than to share myself and experience another persons’ body to kill every bird in this scenario with one stone? Sex is NOTHING to be ashamed of. It’s a physical, natural, earthy, HUMAN act, an act of passion – not love, in my opinion. It can relate to love, but it doesn’t originate from love. Fucking comes from the need to reproduce – speaking in terms of our evolution, sex was used as a way to continue the species. Yes, humans have always been fairly monogamous, but that doesn’t mean that now we have developed to enjoy sex for simply the pleasure of it, we have to stick to a handful of people. If it feels right and you’re being safe and sensible, do it. If it doesn’t, don’t. And don’t ever judge someone else’s sexual past – there’s nothing wrong with ‘sluts’, whatever the hell that term means, and nothing wrong with virgins.

  152. 18 y/o male- 0 chicks. I honestly don’t get it though. Girls think im hot but whenever i get into a bed with a girl i can’t have sex. I like doing everything else like oral and whatever else there is to do, but i dont feel comfortable asking for sex. And if they ask me it is literally a turn off cause its so easy. The problem is i want to have sex so bad. Its literally all i think about. Is this normal?

  153. Justme :
    I can’t believe the amount of filthy sluts on here.
    Why do you girls feel the need to f*ck so many guys? I’m 33, male, and I’ve been with 4 girls\ since I was 18.
    If every girl was like the girls on here, I’d stay single for the rest of my life. You all disgust me!

    I totally agree dude. like wff is this shit? i think that girls want it more than we do believe it or not. they’re just more in the closet about it. but yeah the numbers ive seen on here give me nausea. I’m 23 and have slept with 12 women in all. and I thought that I had a promiscuity issue……….not really…… in comparison to what ive seen on here. its fuckin nasty. you and me are on the same page with this.

  154. why do women get judged more based on how many partners they’ve had? I want to know the psychology behind it. my friend john sleeps with 5 women in one month and i hardly think anything of it. but when here that Leslie did the same thing, i go “damn, what a skank!” lol. why do i think this?

  155. Anonymous :Well, I am from a very small town in South America. I started tp have sex when I was 12 with a cousin of mine, then he shared me with his friends, and suddenly i was having sex with many guys at the same time. Then I got pregnant, my parents did not help me and i started to work as a prostitute. I ended in UK after many things happened. I have been with more than 7000 men. Not exactly. Sometimes I wanted to change my life, but i think it is to late. I try to enjoy sex as much as I can, it is the only thing I have

  156. Well, I am from a very small town in South America. I started tp have sex when I was 12 with a cousin of mine, then he shared me with his friends, and suddenly i was having sex with many guys at the same time. Then I got pregnant, my parents did not help me and i started to work as a prostitute. I ended in UK after many things happened. I have been with more than 7000 men. Not exactly. Sometimes I wanted to change my life, but i think it is to late. I try to enjoy sex as much as I can, it is the only thing I havjaimjaimarm17@gmail.come anywat.

  157. I am 17 I am still a virgin but I’ve had multiple oral sex encounters think about 10-15 which 2 was done to me. I’m not ashamed of this I am who I am.

  158. As far as this double standard sh*t…well..sex is sex, it doesn’t matter if your a female or male, try to keep your legs closed as long as you can until someone worthwhile comes along. Also, don’t get caught up in averages and nonsense like that, just live your life the way you see fit and be safe.

  159. All this sex talk makes me wanna go bang, dam*t!
    Anyway, I’m 29F/Michigan and have had close to 100 partners. I did it to fill an emotional void and also because I love sex. I did have a serious mood disorder and messed up background, but now that I’ve gotten help I am pretty reserved and use play toys and porn all the time (my saving grace!). Just cuz Ive gotten help doesn’t mean I don’t have a hell of a sex drive (obviously). Had a couple curable Std’s and (sadly) abortions. What really woke me up was getting HPV and the abortions. I don’t know how I made it through my 20’s. Just remember, God forgives and wants you to forgive yourself. Have respect for yourself and others. If you have head issues, get them fixed…oh and don’t waste your time with MD’s, go to a naturopathic doc for “mood disorders” and your health in general, they are hard to find up here in the north but their there. Don’t beat yourself up over the past either, it’s a waste of time and energy. And anyone who wants to judge you, tell them to *uck themselves!!!
    Cheers!

  160. ive lied to everyone said i had sex with 3 people!!!!!!im 27yr female and ive slept with at least 50 people or more!!!!!

  161. I can’t believe the amount of filthy sluts on here.
    Why do you girls feel the need to f*ck so many guys? I’m 33, male, and I’ve been with 4 girls since I was 18.
    If every girl was like the girls on here, I’d stay single for the rest of my life. You all disgust me!

  162. I’m a 22 year old female. I lost my virginity at 16. I’ve had 2 boyfriends, 1 hookup and 1 one night stand. Total of 4 and I regret 2 of them.

  163. I first had sex at age 14 2 weeks before my 15th birthday I am 16 now With someone I really really truly love and care about But I do not regret it but we was not in a romantic relation It is a long story since then No no one else I only hadh im and the last time I had sex with him was a year ago But I am seeing someone else and I only given the current person I am seeing now Oral sex

  164. I’m a 26yr old female, I lost my virginity at 20. However I have had sexual encounters from the age of 14. Since then I’ve had intercourse with 10 different men & 1 woman. But if we are including all sexual encounters it would be 29 people.

  165. I am 24 years old, I lost my virginity at age 16, and I had sex with 13 different guys. When my boyfriend (#13) asked how many men I have slept with, I replied only three (What !? He does not have to know.) To be honest, I had a great experience with 4/13 guys
    (I sometimes wish the others didn’t count, but college made me do unmemberable things).

  166. im 17 female im still a virgin and im gald i am my frinds have lost there v card but they were in reationships i have a BF hes 19 and we have been going out for 2 months and so far he has been willing to wait until im ready dont loose you virginty because of peer presure its one of things you never get back.

  167. I just turned 18 recently. I have slept with 21-25 men and women since my 16th birthday. I got game…. however I dont have love. I look for it in all the wrong places apparently. I am also rapid cycling bipolar so a lot of the sex happened when I was having a manic episode. Or when I was drunk because I was depressed. I however still am tight as hell lmao……fml

  168. And since im going to be honest,i have contacted 3 STD’s thank God they were all curable. I have also had 4 abortions,n birth 2 children. Im not proud of this,but i believe there are a lot of women with stories similar to mines. Nobody in my life knows this about me. I keep my sorted past a secret….shhh

  169. Im 23 y/o female mother of two. Im not sure wat my exact number of sex partners is but its between 40-50 men and 2 women. I think i was looking for love in sex. I lost my virginity when i was 15. But i now celibate and counciling young girls. I really blame the medua and peer pressure

  170. alright so im 18 now. i lost my v card when i was 15! And since i was 17 ive been hooking up with a 24 year old! oh well, FISH!

  171. i am 9 and had sex with 57 men most of them are in their 40s and 50s old fart perverts

  172. 18 and I’ve slept with two guys- both were one night stands and I was very drunk. Felt really dirty/ ashamed afterwards and definitely regret both experiences

  173. fred :
    Im 28.. 87 women, 3 of which were in 1 day… whoops!!! LOL

    Ew I’d never date any guy who had slept with that many woman that’s revolting. Im 18 and I’ve slept with one who I’ve been with for two yrs. when we break up (if we ever do) I won’t turn into a classless slut this forum is gross.

  174. Anonymous :

    Jasmine :
    i’m 14 and slept with 7 guys, does this make me a slag?

    Yess, when I was 14 I had been with one guy and even then I got called a slag, by 15 it was 2 lads, 16 it was 9 lads, 17 it was 15 & I’m almost 18 and lie to people about how many I’ve been with because I feel horrible…..
    You’ll regret it when you’re abit older.

    When I was 14 I was sitting around talking with my friends about what it would be like to have our first kisses.. I’m 19 now lost my vs at 17 to a close friend I liked a lot and he couldn’t care less about me after. It hurt like shit and I regret it. Now Im 19 and have been with the same guy for 8 months, i Love him to bits might marry him some day who knows. Dont tell any guy your number unless he’s a slut too cos it would probably freak him the f out. Your not bad girls im sure you had your reasons but try to clean up your act if you want guys to take you seriously. Peace and love!

  175. I’m 17 y/o female, had sex with 9 different guys . I regret 5 of them. 4 of them was drunk sex. btw, not all at the same time! lol . But i did had three-some twice at different times with different women&men . Also 5-some once. which i will never do that again. . . should i count the 4 females too?? If so, i’ve had sex with 13 people in total, and i lost my virginity at my late 16’s & i’m turning 18 sooon! wooot! i’m a bit of a sex freak!?..(Got from my Brazilian Bloodline) i’ve should of been warned. but im not loose! so im extremely glad about that! At least i work out healthy and gymnastic help too! lol.

  176. i am 20 year old female and has slept with 6 guys.. lost my virginity at 16 and i regret 4 of the ugh!!

  177. 29 years old male. let me think mmm around 25 girls and 1 group (+2) = 27. that’s nat much right :(((( i want more :(

  178. Let’s just say i’m a female over the age of 50…i’ve had at least 300 sex partners..the first when i was 16 and still going strong

  179. Male, 15 years old, lost my virginity a year and two moths ago, had sex with 10 women, should have waited too lose my virginity though, rather than do it unprotected with a 19 year old girl I just met. always be safe because you don’t want the worry of any std’s

  180. I dont understand, with so many sluts out there why is it that I never slept with more girls. what did I do wrong?

  181. 32 year old male, have had sex with 3.75 women, 2 of them were/are serious relationships. .25 went down on a girl once, .25 had really drunk sex which I wouldnt count as having sex, the other I came too fast to even count as a sexual encounter.

  182. I am a male senior in high school and I’ve had sex with 36 girl I’m not sure if that’s a good or bad amount, but but I can’t wait till college

  183. its not the amount its the quality. I have a feeling some of you will be on dateline for soliciting under age girls lmao.

  184. Lost my virginity at 18…
    Now I am 21…
    & I slept with 26 men :(
    I am a women, I feel like a whore :'(

  185. I lost it three months ago, I’m a 15 year old girl, and now I’ve slept with 5 guys (two of them while I was drunk) in those months.

  186. I’m 30 year old male – good looking. Lost my virginity at 18. Have had sex with 29 women. Am totally open to more. Sex is fun and should be celebrated!!! Any std females looking for a hook up should contact me :-). johndoe447@ymail.com. I live in Oregon.

  187. I’m 30 yr guy now, pretty worn out. I was lucky enough to work in a strip club for 12 years of my life. The stippers were always being replaced. No exaggeration, I was bringing a girl or three home every night, so I’ve lost count but it must be somewhere in the region of 7000+ women.

  188. That’s impossible, surely. Oh I’m being silly I didn’t realize this was a blog for well you know….ladies of the night

  189. I’m a 46 year old man and have had one sexual partner in my life and have sex alot. 4/5 times a year is not unusual! I think I’m very lucky that a woman would allow that to be done to her

  190. 27 yr old female and started at 14, was up to 25 by the time I was 21 im now 27 and upwards of 70 men

  191. Im 25 but still have not got any female body taste. i would like to have experience with a girl. any girl from UK please call me on 00447933064972

  192. Anonymous :
    I am 27 years old and have had sex with only one person in my life.
    I wish I could have sex frequently with many women. People say I am a good looking guy. I

    dont get it why women dont find me attractive. I feel so bad about it everyday.
    </bloc
    what? people? who are they? and who gives a shit. 27 years old? really? you should have grown up by now and stopped f'n bitching. I wish i could have sex frequently with many women….wah. Don't blame the women for your lack of sex amte

  193. Anonymous :

    Tom :I’m male 44 and have had just 3 sexual partners. My partner has had 11. However she’s messed about with probably a further 8 – 1o . I think she’s a wonderful attractive woman but i often picture her with past partners. Do i wish I’d of had more partners? Well at times yes, however I’m only really happy in long term relationships which my past partners have all been.

    Tom you have some issues with your self image. you have shitty self esteem. if your girl is fing you she oviously loves/likes you enough for this. then why are you thinking about her past lovers, either your insecure maybe you suck in bed or have ed? i dont know but i will say this Tom i think you have some personal issues “which who dosnt” i think it dosnt matter about her past if shes doing you now. you sizeing her past men up—-actully is normal almost all men do. they dont make a huge deal out of it ” unless its Fabio or a porn starr” so relax my freind. dont ruin your relationship because of your insecurities–believe me on this one because ive been there and i did lost her over her sexual encounters over 12yrs ago. i kick myself for this one she was almost a perfect 10. live and you learn…here is my advice i have a hunch or just guessing here but maybe a membership to a gym instead of sitting at your computer would literally solve alot of your problems start eating right hit the weights hire a trainner in 6 months i promise you will have so much more confidence in yourself with your new image look the way you feel etc. you will be tappin her ass and not giveing a hoot who had been there before you cheers mate

    Oh you sad f$%^ did she have more sex than you back in the day? Who give a f$%^? Oh….. …..you, um well….get over it, or don’t, don’t f’n bitch about it. Who is she with? You! What was that? you. you you. Not someone else u dumb fuck, you, sheesh

  194. im 18 started when i was 15 slept with 8 and i wish i waited cause it all didnt mean anything at all.

  195. 15 male lost virginity at 13 only slept wit 2 woman both relationships std free thank god…… mind you i have had sex several times with the same partner cuz i love it, but not with just anyone cuz im scared to contract something.

  196. I m still vergin…since i m 20yr indian boy i didn’t get any oprtunity for sex….i need sex partner but i haven’t money

  197. I m still vergin…since i m 20yr indian boy i didn’t get ant oprtunity for sex….i need sex partner but i haven’t money

  198. Well, im only 15 and I have had 8 different sexual partners. I lost my virginity to a 15 year old when I was 12. I then had sex again with my boyfriend when I was 13 and he was 14. we had sex a total of 5 times. Then, my freshman pretty much changed me into a whore. I had sex with a senior twice, and the second time we had sex, I later that night had sex with a 19 year old I knew for probably 4 hours. The next month I gave it up to a junior boy. 2 months later I had sex two days in a row with a different junior that I had only knew for about 8 hours. a week later I had sex with another junior that was one of my ex boyfriends. 2 months later I got on a relationship with an amazing guy who was a virgin, but have it to me. We’ve been together for about 2 months now and have had sex 14 times. I only turned 15 two months ago.

  199. i guess there’s no place for a negative comment on this post..
    but to speak out the truth i havent had experienced sex before..as i havent got that attractive female in my 23 yrs of life…(im straight though)…. nd i do respect opposite sex…but somehow i couldnt able to find a sweet looking girl who would make my 6″ pole to stand hard….i dnt belive a prostitute can cater my senses…
    and out of all these frustrations i joined several networking sites..use facebook..twitter…whatsapp..and many more..
    i seriously belive all sex couples are too lucky….

  200. I’m a 25f, started having sex at age 16 and have been w/ 17 guys! 2 were one night stands. Most were relationships couple fwb. I would like to take a few of them back. Some relationships only last a few months, and if u hold back on the sex then u haven’t added a number. I rarely tell my number to anyone because as a female if u are unto double digits u can be thought of as a slit.

  201. I am turning 21 i Lost my virginity at 18 and am still with that person and getting married I have never been a promicous person nor have I thought of sleeping with other people it’s not my style and it gives me nausea to even think of sleeping with multiple people but that is just my opinion and views on this topic.

  202. I also got like 50,000 online responses in eight months with no money( good responses too, from good folk and many high quality), However I do have several degree in business!!!!! Working on an MBA!!!!!! Got a lot of sports talent, very good at many things, you should see my cooking. Out of the park with this one, those are like Derek Cheeter numbers!!!!! I do profess a faith in God too!!!!!

  203. I am adding quality and 200 plus strippers to my five hundred as well as everything cyber, and phone related and 100 hook ups, and times where I didn’t even date or have sex, many relationships, millions of flirts, as well as toys and other stuff in addition to five friends with girls, and like three girlfriends. sorry I like to party, might even try some new stuff within reason!!!!! Just to sort of clean off or towel off if you know what I mean.

  204. That must have been terrible. Sorry people, I only had sex with one girl whom I met when I was 17 and she is still my girlfriend and we still have sex. I have had countless opportunities which I rejected.

  205. Had 30 erotic massages a great way to reduce stress and improve the economy and I never pay more than$20.00 for a lap dance with the hottest SF females!!!!!! I have dropped like $20,000 grand at the clubs though!!!!! I have had sex with seven women, two friendships, macked on 100 women, and had three girlfriends, and love and compassion everywhere else in my life, more than G O D!!!!!!!

  206. i am 21year old female and i lost my virginity at 16 to a 35yr old man. This experience made be confused about my sexuality and i became rebellious or better said promiscuous. As a result, i must have had a total of 13 sexual partners since i was sixteen and 98.9% of them are over 10 years older than me.i dont have STD, which is my biggest fear but i ‘ll not recommend people to gamble with their health.

  207. 24 year old male, slept with 44 girls since losing my virginity at 18.
    9 of the 44 were girls I dated for an extended period of time. only regret 2 of them.

  208. Nearly 17, had sex with one guy when I was 15… Since then I’ve gone out a looooot and got with over 100 guys but whenever it comes to sex now I completely freak out :L Absolutely anything else I don’t have any problem with and I have no idea why sex scares me so much now when it didn’t before… Any thoughts?

  209. Well, what i have to say is that all
    you guys that have had or having
    several sex partners are so lucky.
    I haven’t been that fortunate to
    have any.
    It seems like girls who enjoy sex only exist on the internet. I don’t
    even get to meet any around me
    or on the internet just read
    comments regularly.
    Well if anyone wants to help me
    out or suggestions, whatever, please contact me.:
    Email= dedondeemperor@yahoo.com. Am on facebook, whatsapp,
    twitter.
    By the way, am 25, male.

  210. I’m a 20 year old female. I’ve had 16 partners. 9 of which were also romantic relationships. The irony is that I’m engaged to the guy I lost my virginity(at age 15) to lol

  211. jeevitha :i am house wife my husband is in america.i want sex from anyone.pls any one fuck me

    you must be one ugly or mean women because i know some rugby fellas that would fuck a sheep so there is hope for ya. do you look like a sheep by anychance baa baaa go to a pub and whiper to the ugliest bloke in the joint tell him you want him to stick his cock in your arse that should do it. you figure the ugly ducklins always talk about it but in reality it only happens to the really really ridiculious good looking people thus concluding you must be an ugly duckling but thats ok even the sheeps get laid

  212. Tom :I’m male 44 and have had just 3 sexual partners. My partner has had 11. However she’s messed about with probably a further 8 – 1o . I think she’s a wonderful attractive woman but i often picture her with past partners. Do i wish I’d of had more partners? Well at times yes, however I’m only really happy in long term relationships which my past partners have all been.

    Tom you have some issues with your self image. you have shitty self esteem. if your girl is fing you she oviously loves/likes you enough for this. then why are you thinking about her past lovers, either your insecure maybe you suck in bed or have ed? i dont know but i will say this Tom i think you have some personal issues “which who dosnt” i think it dosnt matter about her past if shes doing you now. you sizeing her past men up—-actully is normal almost all men do. they dont make a huge deal out of it ” unless its Fabio or a porn starr” so relax my freind. dont ruin your relationship because of your insecurities–believe me on this one because ive been there and i did lost her over her sexual encounters over 12yrs ago. i kick myself for this one she was almost a perfect 10. live and you learn…here is my advice i have a hunch or just guessing here but maybe a membership to a gym instead of sitting at your computer would literally solve alot of your problems start eating right hit the weights hire a trainner in 6 months i promise you will have so much more confidence in yourself with your new image look the way you feel etc. you will be tappin her ass and not giveing a hoot who had been there before you cheers mate

  213. Anonymous :

    giselle :I’m 19 had sex with 35 guys. Does that make me a whore?

    YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

    times have changed…. put it this way…. people will judge you as a slut just because you are a female…. but your 19 slow the fuck down before your girly bits blow up. thats very very unatractive to me. i think i speak for most men when i say. men love “easy women we love to fuck them say what you want talk dirty anything you please because this girl is just a wild fuck and thats that. on the other hand men want a women who have low numbers that shows men that they respect there morals values etc.” MEN want a freaky ass girl in the bed but a lady in the street. i worry at all these women i am reading about almost all of you sound like you are great fun for a one nighter or booty call but at least for me. i cant respect a 19 yr old girl whos hitting the sheets with this many men. your still a baby at 19.

  214. i am 16…n had slept wid 7 guys!!!!!
    is der any type of harm i it??????
    is der any chances of getting spoiled out my married lyf?????
    plzz sum 1 help mee out of dis!!!

  215. dadu :Im a 32 year old man , I have slept with 13 women and two men …..

    Finally someone telling the truth. thank you for being real….

    NoSwag :70+ guys between the age of 19-22, of course with a cd on 30% was worth the experience & remembered, the rest were wasted sperms!

    Anonymous :50 plus

  216. WOW after reading this i feel so much better about my self! I lost my virginity at the age 14 i am now 16 and only had 3 sexual partners 1 each year so 1 age 14 1 age 15 and 1 age 16 ! And planning to keep it tht way untill i find the right guy because i regret all of them! Hopefully number 4 is the man i marry or the father of my children

  217. 70+ guys between the age of 19-22, of course with a cd on :) 30% was worth the experience & remembered, the rest were wasted sperms!

  218. Well, what i have to say is that all you guys that have had or having several sex partners are so lucky.
    I haven’t been that fortunate to have any.
    It seems like girls who enjoy sex only exist on the internet. I don’t even get to meet any around me or on the internet just read comments regularly.
    Well if anyone wants to help me out or suggestions, whatever, please contact me.:
    Email= dedondeemperor@yahoo.com.
    Am on facebook, whatsapp, twitter.
    By the way, am 25, male.

  219. Well!i’m 14 and i had slept with 3 boys but the third boy is still with me and we’ve been going out nearly a year!! He ask me for sex but if i say no its okay for him!! He knows about my past, his very honest!:)) he respect me:))

  220. 1 and only 1, lost my virginity on honey moon night when i was 25. though i have been dating my husband 10 yrs before we got married.

  221. I am 22 year old and up to about 5 months ago I had only had sex with 6 guys and each one of them I was with for at least 4 months (one being a year one being 4 years) but I got my heart broken and since then my number has gone up to 13. Before then I had never had a one night stand. I knew all of them and I have never taken drugs ans never got an STD though most of them I was very drunk.

    Am I a slut? Thoughts?

  222. i was a virgin until i was 19 i was planning to stay a virgin until i got married God forgive me! i am sad to say i have had 4 1 night stands with 4 differnt girls 1 time each, im 22 now and im slowly getting my life together i was engaged that’s what sparked my dogg side when i broke up with my ex, i am more mature now but still under worry and anxiety i truly regreat it i wish i could take it back but now i pray everything works out God willing

  223. I think you grow out of sex and stop being slutty. I think as a teenager girl your hormones are going crazy and I think thats the age you like having sex with different guys, when you hit 21/22 you become a bit more mature about it all. I wrote down my list and number of guys Ive slept with and it came to 16 guys I am a 24 yr old girl.

    Some of the guys I slept with I was off my face on drugs and alchol so I blame them haha and guys really shouldnt take advantage of drunk girls who r on drugs its their fault! they need to do a course on how to not take advantage of drunk girls.

    Now I dont go out clubbing anymore cause I dont want to get drunk and do something ill regret. I dont even get drunk anymore just 2 beers after work then I have dinner and watch dvds. I dont want my number gettting any higher until I meet the right guy.

    I looked up the average for women’s sexual partners and it said 7-8 I think that is bullshit and the guys they said 12 that could be bullshit to because I live in a party town and I really doubt that girls and guys here have only slept with 7-12 its more like 20-40

  224. I am a 25 year old female and I have slept with 30 people. But I hate that, I wish the number was much lower.

  225. This makes me cry even if everybody is exaggerating by 90% as I’m 23 and had sex with two whores only to date. I went to all male high school, dropped and spend last years at home. I regret that I was born.

  226. I’ll Turn 22 in April, lost my virginity when i was 18!! slept with 84girls by September 2011!…..

    my gf broke up with me when i told her, after 5 months of being together… she forced me to tell her after avoiding it for soo long. now she thinks she’s just a number, even worse she lost her virginity to me!!

    But keep in mind that i have traveled over 22 countries, where drinking, partying and sex was all there was to do!! and my number includes 15 prostitutes!!

    I know its easy for me to say let the past remain in the past, regardless, what i learnt is, never be honest about the number of your sexual partners!!… I learnt the hard way!

  227. Im 16 and ii fucked 14 guyyz and made out with about 4 girls not dat much from wat I’m reading here on this website!!! Dam yal are hoe’z ii mean more than 20 if yuur still a teen is fucken a lot JUST MAKE SURE YAL DON’T GET AIDS

  228. Anonymous :I’m a 22 year old female, just three for me. one being my first boyfriend (we were together 2 years), and my fiance. I have had other opportunities, but I don’t reget not taking them. I see sex as personal, not something to be treasured as such, just personally I find it quite intimate. And I am 100% comfortable with that number never going higher.

    Once with your first boyfriend and with your fiance’ ….That’s only two?

  229. I am 27yrs and I lost my virginity at 15 yrs. I have been with 50+ men. (I stopped counting when I got to 40. I used to constantly cheat on my partners and have had many one night stands, but it all turned around when i met my current boyfriend, 4.5 years together and i havent even thought about cheating, maybe its something people grow out of mostly???

  230. The person I am seeing is a 15 y/o f and has slept with 23 guys and 10 girls, is that bad?
    From what I know she has had a rough life so far..

  231. I’m 28 and I have had 42 partners. The list includes all sexual contacts: oral, manual stimulation, etc. 40 men, one woman and one trans-woman. I have never been pregnant and have never had a sexually transmitted disease. I don’t regret any of my sexual encounters. I learned something from every person I’ve been with. Even the most casual relationships held a certain meaning for me. We live in a society that disapproves of casual sex, but in my case, it was positive, even healing. Some of the experiences, especially when I was a teenager, were not that great, but I still learned something!

  232. Im a 26 yo male and have slept with about 35 females since I was 15. I had contracted HSV2 and HPV by the time I was 20, but never anything else.

  233. Anonymous :

    giselle :
    I’m 19 had sex with 35 guys. Does that make me a whore?

    ifvyou tell that to your Bf then yes

    anon123 :
    im 14 and i have slept with 23 boys, i regret nearly all of them and i have been drunk or on drugs with all of them. i cant seem to stop, its a bad habit that i wish i could get out of.. i dont want to be a slag but i cant stop! help me please… xox

    You could be a whore, or you could just be lost in your life right now.
    You should try to hangout with a different group of people.
    Also dont fuck people that are just “hot” if you cant see yourself with them later on
    and they can see them selfs with you whats the point of getting fucked really good for about 20mins to later on be hurt for your hole life?
    GUYS LIE!
    He may say he wants to be with you, but he just wants to be with your pussy!
    Only sleep with guys that are willing to be with you, and wait tell you feel like your ready to sleep with them.
    TRY OUT: a viberater and some lube, i beat it will make you feel better then any guy could!

  234. Im 16, at age 14 i had been with around 25 guys give or take a little.
    A lot of it started out as not always feeling like the pretty girl out of my friends,
    i started taking pics and posting them on my myspace and all kinds of guys were into me.
    It made me feel good! So i started meeting these guys and messing around a little,
    then i started making “friends” and going to partys.
    Thats when i drinking started, smokeing, and doing coke.
    and when you are on drugs it makes you do things that you can never get over or take back…
    I have cryed myself to sleep a few nights, because i can’t even think of half the guys names!
    and the ones i can think of dont even ever wanna talk to me.

    The only good thing that came out of this was:
    the last one nightstand i had was with my boyfriend i have been with for almost 2 years now.
    He knows all about my past, he trys to help me and make me feel good about myself, and i pretty much do.. i just wish i could take back the number of guys i have been.
    and only have been with him, The One I Love!

    I have never been tested for a std because back then i didnt care, but grown up just a little makes you see things you didnt when you were young and dumb.
    So this up coming week im getting tested for everything! even aids! I pray to god i dont have anything but not only for myself but because i want to make sure my love is safe i would feel like shit if i gave him something.

    SO I GUESS I JUST WANNA SHARE WHAT I KNOW NOW WITH YOU YOUNGER GIRLS.
    Just because a 20 something year old guy says your pretty and will buy you stuff and take you out to eat and to the movies, and has a car doesn’t mean he likes you or even cares
    about you it just means a PETAFILE that wants to get his dick wet but cant by girls his own age because hes a fucking loser!

  235. im 14 and i have slept with 23 boys, i regret nearly all of them and i have been drunk or on drugs with all of them. i cant seem to stop, its a bad habit that i wish i could get out of.. i dont want to be a slag but i cant stop! help me please… xox

  236. I’m a 22 year old female, just three for me. one being my first boyfriend (we were together 2 years), and my fiance. I have had other opportunities, but I don’t reget not taking them. I see sex as personal, not something to be treasured as such, just personally I find it quite intimate. And I am 100% comfortable with that number never going higher.

  237. I’m 19 started having sex at around 14 and I’ve counted 59 guys dat I’ve slept with maybe 15 were 1 night stands while others were just sex partners,boyfriends n affairs I’ve got no std or sti’s what so ever. And I’m engaged to my current boyfriend who knows that I’ve only had 7partners lol its crazy

  238. I am 17 year old female… In total I have had intercourse with 17 guys. 1 girl.

    I have had a threesome with another girl and a guy and also a threesome with two guys.

    Thoughts on this please?????????????????????????????????

  239. hm

    Aundree :
    I am 21 years young couldnt sleep….besides tonight im usually thinking to myself that 16 guys is a lot for me being that I used to be so modest and now since Ive seperated from my husband it seems I get infatuated with someone and then it just doesnt work or fit my life then the tally just goes up and its awful…. so I try not to forget who all that I have been with atleast knowing their names helps me to feel a little better…. when Im done I shread the list it would be horrible if someone found it and realized what it was so every once and a while I tally it up on paper again and again “good news is my first was by my ex-husband who is my sons father” atleast I can say that. I feel like Ive been toooo wild..it does hurt me to be told that im great at head and creative in bed by most because (number 1)I love sex (number 2)those kinda things make me want to jump to show off what ive been told right off and it makes me anxious where as usually in the past I would wait months and get to know the person….it kinda sux but I dont feel so bad I guess it can be a good thing you just have to keep yourself and others safe = ]

    queensguy :
    36 yr old male… 271 women, 90% first time we met, kissed maybe 40 of the 271 women… Sucks cause now I’m spoiled, I view women as sex objects mostly, I move on if I don’t get my way, I get bored very easily! Wish I could fall in love but its hard now… Jealous of guys who can sleep with the same girl over & over & still be turned on… Hopefully I can change one day.

  240. queensguy :
    36 yr old male… 271 women, 90% first time we met, kissed maybe 40 of the 271 women… Sucks cause now I’m spoiled, I view women as sex objects mostly, I move on if I don’t get my way, I get bored very easily! Wish I could fall in love but its hard now… Jealous of guys who can sleep with the same girl over & over & still be turned on… Hopefully I can change one day.

  241. I’m 19 and my number is 10. I was sober with only 2 of them. 5 of them were one night stands (super wasted but not random guys i didnt know) 3 of them were “really good friends” who took repeatedly took advantage of my drunkeness. I felt like a whore so I quit drinking so this wouldnt happen anymore and it’s been over 5 months since I’ve hooked up.

  242. Safe sex precautions

    It has been suggested that Dual protection be merged into this article or section. (Discuss) Proposed since December 2009.

    Shunga print by Kunisada depicting masturbation
    [edit]Avoiding physical contact
    Known as autoeroticism, solitary sexual activity is relatively safe. Masturbation, the simple act of stimulating one’s own genitalia, is safe so long as contact is not made with other people’s bodily fluids. Some activities, such as “phone sex” and “cybersex”, that allow for partners to engage in sexual activity without being in the same room, eliminate the risks involved with exchanging bodily fluids.[7]
    [edit]Non-penetrative sex

    Watercolor of manual stimulation of the penis, Johann Nepomuk Geiger, 1840.
    Main article: Non-penetrative sex
    A range of sex acts, sometimes called “outercourse”, can be enjoyed with significantly reduced risks of infection or pregnancy. U.S. President Bill Clinton’s surgeon general, Dr. Joycelyn Elders, tried to encourage the use of these practices among young people, but her position encountered opposition from a number of outlets, including the White House itself, and resulted in her being fired by President Clinton in December 1994.[8][9][10]
    Non-penetrative sex includes practices such as kissing, mutual masturbation, rubbing or stroking and, according to the Health Department of Western Australia, this sexual practice may prevent pregnancy and most STIs. However, non-penetrative sex may not protect against infections that can be transmitted skin-to-skin such as herpes and genital warts.[citation needed]
    [edit]Barrier protection
    Various protective devices are used to avoid contact with blood, vaginal fluid, semen or other contaminant agents (like skin, hair and shared objects) during sexual activity. Sexual activity using these devices is called protected sex.

    Condom machine
    Condoms cover the penis during sexual activity. They are most frequently made of latex, and can also be made out of synthetic materials including polyurethane.
    Female condoms are inserted into the vagina prior to intercourse.
    A dental dam (originally used in dentistry) is a sheet of latex used for protection when engaging in oral sex. It is typically used as a barrier between the mouth and the vulva during cunnilingus or between the mouth and the anus during anal–oral sex.
    Medical gloves made out of latex, vinyl, nitrile, or polyurethane may be used as a makeshift dental dam during oral sex, or to protect the hands during sexual stimulation, such as masturbation. Hands may have invisible cuts on them that may admit pathogens or contaminate the other body part or partner.
    Another way to protect against pathogen transmission is the use of protected or properly cleaned dildos and other sex toys. If a sex toy is to be used in more than one orifice or partner, a condom can be used over it and changed when the toy is moved.
    When latex barriers are used, oil-based lubrication can break down the structure of the latex and remove the protection it provides.
    Condoms (male or female) are used to protect against STIs, and used with other forms of contraception to improve contraceptive effectiveness. For example, simultaneously using both the male condom and spermicide (applied separately, not pre-lubricated) is believed to reduce perfect-use pregnancy rates to those seen among implant users.[11] However, if two condoms are used simultaneously (male condom on top of male condom, or male condom inside female condom), this increases the chance of condom failure.[12][13]
    Proper use of barriers, such as condoms, depends on the cleanliness of surfaces of the barrier, handling can pass contamination to and from surfaces of the barrier unless care is taken.
    Studies of latex condom performance during use reported breakage and slippage rates varying from 1.46% to 18.60%.[14] Condoms must be put on before any bodily fluid could be exchanged, and they must be used also during oral sex.[15]
    Female condoms are made of two flexible polyurethane rings and a loose-fitting polyurethane sheath.[14] According to laboratory testing, female condoms are effective in preventing the leakage of body fluids and therefore the transmission of STIs and HIV. Several studies show that between 50% and 73% of women who have used this type of condoms during intercourse find them as or more comfortable than male condoms. On the other hand, acceptability of these condoms among the male population is somewhat less, at approximately 40%. Because the cost of female condoms is higher than male condoms, there have been studies carried out with the aim of detecting whether they can be reused. Research has shown that structural integrity of polyurethane female condoms is not damaged during up to five uses if it is disinfected with water and household bleach. However, regardless of this study, specialists still recommend that female condoms are used only once and then discarded.
    [edit]Other precautions
    Acknowledging that it is usually impossible to have entirely risk-free sex with another person, proponents of safe sex recommend that some of the following methods be used to minimize the risks of STI transmission and unwanted pregnancy.
    Immunization against various viral infections that can be transmitted sexually. The most common vaccines are HPV vaccine, which protects against the most common types of human papillomavirus that cause cervical cancer, and the Hepatitis B vaccine. Immunization before initiation of sexual activity increases effectiveness.
    Male circumcision and HIV: Some research has suggested that male circumcision can reduce the risk of HIV infection in some countries. The World Health Organization cites the procedure as a measure against the transmission of HIV between women and men; some African studies have found that circumcision can reduce the rate of transmission of HIV to men by up to 60%.[16] Some advocacy groups dispute these findings.[17][18] In sub-Saharan Africa, at least, condom use and behavior change programs are estimated to be more efficient and much more cost-effective than surgical procedures such as circumcision.[19]
    Periodic STI testing has been used to reduce STIs in Cuba and among pornographic film actors. Cuba implemented a program of mandatory testing and quarantine early in the AIDS epidemic.[20] In the US pornographic film industry, many production companies will not hire actors without tests for Chlamydia, HIV and Gonorrhea that are no more than 30 days old-and tests for other STIs no more than 6 months old. AIM Medical foundation claims that program of testing has reduced the incidence of sexually transmitted infection to 20% of that of the general population.[21] Douching with soap and water disrupts the vaginal flora it might increase risk of infection.[22][23]
    Monogamy or polyfidelity, practiced faithfully, is very safe (as far as STIs are concerned) when all partners are non-infected. However, many monogamous people have been infected with sexually transmitted diseases by partners who are sexually unfaithful, have used injection drugs, or were infected by previous sexual partners; the same risks apply to polyfidelitous people, who face higher risks depending on how many people are in the polyfidelitous group.
    For those who are not monogamous, reducing the number of one’s sexual partners, particularly anonymous sexual partners, may also reduce one’s potential exposure to STIs. Similarly, one may restrict one’s sexual contact to a community of trusted individuals—this is the approach taken by some pornographic actors and other non-monogamous people.
    When selecting a sexual partner, some characteristics can increase the risks for contracting sexually transmitted diseases.[24] These include an age discordance of more than five years;[24] having an STI in the past year;[24] problems with alcohol;[24] having had sex with other people in the past year.[24]
    Communication with one’s sexual partner(s) makes for greater safety. Before initiating sexual activities, partners may discuss what activities they will and will not engage in, and what precautions they will take. This can reduce the chance of risky decisions being made “in the heat of passion”.
    If a person is sexually active with a number of partners, regular sexual health check-ups by a doctor, and on noticing unusual symptoms seeking prompt medical advice; HIV and other infectious agents can be either asymptomatic or involve nonspecific symptoms which on their own can be misdiagnosed.[25][26]
    [edit]Limitations
    While the use of condoms can reduce transmission of HIV and other infectious agents, it does not do so completely. One study has suggested condoms might reduce HIV transmission by 85% to 95%; effectiveness beyond 95% was deemed unlikely because of slippage, breakage, and incorrect use.[27] It also said, “In practice, inconsistent use may reduce the overall effectiveness of condoms to as low as 60–70%”.[27]p. 40.
    During each act of anal intercourse, the risk of the receptive partner acquiring HIV from HIV seropositive partners not using condoms is about 1 in 120. Among people using condoms, the receptive partner’s risk declines to 1 in 550, a four- to fivefold reduction.[5] Where the partner’s HIV status is unknown, “Estimated per-contact risk of protected receptive anal intercourse with HIV-positive and unknown serostatus partners, including episodes in which condoms failed, was two thirds the risk of unprotected receptive anal intercourse with the comparable set of partners.”[5]p. 310.
    [edit]Ineffective methods

    Most methods of contraception, except for certain forms of “outercourse” and the barrier methods, are not effective at preventing the spread of STIs. This includes the birth control pills, vasectomy, tubal ligation, periodic abstinence and all non-barrier methods of pregnancy prevention.
    The spermicide Nonoxynol-9 has been claimed to reduce the likelihood of STI transmission. However, a recent study by the World Health Organization [28] has shown that Nonoxynol-9 is an irritant and can produce tiny tears in mucous membranes, which may increase the risk of transmission by offering pathogens more easy points of entry into the system. Condoms with Nonoxynol-9 lubricant do not have enough spermicide to increase contraceptive effectiveness and are not to be promoted.[citation needed]
    The use of diaphragm or contraceptive sponge provides some women with better protection against certain sexually transmitted diseases,[29] but they are not effective for all STIs.
    The hormonal protecting methods are by no means effective against transmission of STIs, even though they are more than 95% effective against unwanted pregnancies. Most common hormonal methods are the oral contraceptive pill, depoprogesterone, the vaginal ring and the patch.
    The copper intrauterine device and the hormonal intrauterine device provide an up to 99% protection against pregnancies but no protection against STIs. Women with copper intrauterine device present however a greater risk of being exposed to any type of STI, especially gonorrhea or chlamydia.[citation needed]
    Coitus interruptus (or “pulling out”), in which the penis is removed from the vagina, anus, or mouth before ejaculation, is not safe sex and can result in STI transmission. This is because of the formation of pre-ejaculate, a fluid that oozes from the urethra before actual ejaculation, may contain pathogens such as HIV.[30][31] Additionally, the microbes responsible for some diseases, including genital warts and syphilis, can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact, even if the partners never engage in oral, vaginal, or anal sexual intercourse.
    [edit]Abstinence

    Sexual abstinence is sometimes promoted as a way to avoid the risks associated with sexual contact, though STIs may also be transmitted through non-sexual means, or by involuntary sex. HIV may be transmitted through contaminated needles used in tattooing, body piercing, or injections. Medical or dental procedures using contaminated instruments can also spread HIV, while some health-care workers have acquired HIV through occupational exposure to accidental injuries with needles.[32]
    Evidence does not support the use of abstinence only sex education.[33] Abstinence-only education programs have been found to be ineffective in decreasing rates of HIV infection in the developed world[34] and unplanned pregnancy.[33]
    Some groups, notably some evangelical Christians and the Roman Catholic Church, oppose sex outside marriage and object to safe-sex education programs because they believe that providing such education promotes promiscuity. Contrary to these fears, comprehensive sex education, provision of contraceptives and family planning services does not increase sexual activity.[citation needed] Virginity pledges and sexual abstinence education programs are often promoted in lieu of contraceptives and safe-sex education programs. This may entail exposing some teenagers to increased risk of sexually transmitted infections, because about 60 percent of teenagers who pledge virginity until marriage do engage in pre-marital sex and are then one-third less likely to use contraceptives than their peers who have received more conventional sex education.[35]
    [edit]Anal sex

    Unprotected anal penetration is a high risk activity, regardless of sexual orientation. Anal sex is a higher risk activity than vaginal intercourse because the thin tissues of the anus and rectum can be easily damaged.[36][37] Slight injuries can allow the passage of bacteria and viruses, including HIV. This includes by the use of anal toys. Condoms may be more likely to break during anal sex than during vaginal sex, increasing the risk.[38]
    Anal sex is practiced by many heterosexuals, as well as homosexual couples. The anal area has many erotic nerve endings in both men and women. Because of this, many couples (heterosexual or homosexual) can derive pleasure from some form of ‘bottom stimulation’.[36] Safety measures are required also when anal sex occurs between heterosexual partners. Apart from the STI transmission risks, other risks such as infection are high regarding anal intercourse. The main risks which individuals are exposed to when performing anal sex are the transmission of HIV, Hepatitis C and A and Escherichia coli and HPV.[citation needed]
    Some researchers suggest that although gay men are more likely to engage in anal sex, heterosexual couples are more likely not to use condoms when doing so.[39] Other researchers state that gay men are not necessarily more likely to engage in anal sex than heterosexual couples.[36]
    [edit]

  243. Safe sex is sexual activity engaged in by people who have taken precautions to protect themselves against sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) such as AIDS.[1] It is also referred to as safer sex or protected sex, while unsafe or unprotected sex is sexual activity engaged in without precautions. Some sources prefer the term safer sex to more precisely reflect the fact that these practices reduce, but do not completely eliminate, the risk of disease transmission.[2] In recent years, the term “sexually transmitted infections” (STIs) has been preferred over “STDs”, as it has a broader range of meaning; a person may be infected, and may potentially infect others, without showing signs of disease.
    Safe sex practices became more prominent in the late 1980s as a result of the AIDS epidemic. Promoting safe sex is now one of the aims of sex education. Safe sex is regarded as a harm reduction strategy aimed at reducing risks.[3][4]
    The risk reduction of safe sex is not absolute; for example the reduced risk to the receptive partner of acquiring HIV from HIV seropositive partners not wearing condoms to compared to when they wear them is estimated to be about a four- to fivefold.[5]
    Although some safe sex practices can be used as contraception, most forms of contraception do not protect against all or any STIs; likewise, some safe sex practices, like partner selection and low risk sex behavior, are not effective forms of contraception.
    Contents [hide]
    1 Terminology
    2 Safe sex precautions
    2.1 Avoiding physical contact
    2.2 Non-penetrative sex
    2.3 Barrier protection
    2.4 Other precautions
    2.5 Limitations
    3 Ineffective methods
    4 Abstinence
    5 Anal sex
    5.1 Precautions
    6 Sex toys
    7 See also
    8 References
    9 External links
    [edit]Terminology

    The examples and perspective in this section deal primarily with USA and do not represent a worldwide view of the subject. Please improve this article and discuss the issue on the talk page. (August 2010)
    The term safer sex in Canada and the United States has gained greater use by health workers, reflecting that risk of transmission of sexually transmitted infections in various sexual activities is a continuum. The term safe sex is still in common use in the United Kingdom and Australia.[citation needed]
    Although “safe sex” is used by individuals to refer to protection against both pregnancy and HIV/AIDS or other STI transmissions, the term was primarily derived in response to the HIV/AIDS epidemic. It is believed that the term of “safe sex” was used in the professional literature in 1984, in the content of a paper on the psychological effect that HIV/AIDS may have on homosexual men. The term was related with the need to develop educational programs for the group considered at risk, homosexual men. A year later, the same term appeared in an article in the New York Times. This article emphasized that most specialists advised their AIDS patients to practice safe sex. The concept included limiting the number of sexual partners, using prophylactics, avoiding bodily fluid exchange, and resisting the use of drugs that reduced inhibitions for high-risk sexual behavior.[6] Moreover, in 1985, the first safe sex guidelines were established by the ‘Coalition for Sexual Responsibilities’.[who?] According to these guidelines, safe sex was practiced by using condoms also when engaging in anal or oral sex.[citation needed]
    Although this term was primarily used in conjunction with the homosexual male population, in 1986 the concept was spread to the general population. Various programs were developed with the aim of promoting safe sex practices among college students. These programs were focused on promoting the use of the condom, a better knowledge about the partner’s sexual history and limiting the number of sexual partners. The first book on this subject appeared in the same year. The book was entitled “Safe Sex in the Age of AIDS”, it had 88 pages and it described both positive and negative approaches to the sexual life.[citation needed] Sexual behavior could be either safe (kissing, hugging, massage, body-to-body rubbing, mutual masturbation, exhibitionism and voyeurism, telephone sex, sado-masochism without bruising or bleeding, and use of separate sex toys); possibly safe (use of condoms); and unsafe.[6]
    In 1997, specialists in this matter promoted the use of condoms as the most accessible safe sex method (besides abstinence) and they called for TV commercials featuring condoms. During the same year, the Catholic Church in the United States issued their own “safer sex” guidelines on which condoms were listed, though two years later the Vatican urged chastity and heterosexual marriage, attacking the American Catholic bishops’ guidelines.
    A study carried out in 2006 by Californian specialists showed that the most common definitions of safe sex are condom use (68% of the interviewed subjects), abstinence (31.1% of the interviewed subjects), monogamy (28.4% of the interviewed subjects) and safe partner (18.7% of the interviewed subjects).[6]
    “Safer sex” is thought to be a more aggressive term which may make it more obvious to individuals that any type of sexual activity carries a certain degree of risk.
    The term “safe love” has also been used, notably by the French Sidaction in the promotion of men’s underpants incorporating a condom pocket and including the red ribbon symbol in the design, which were sold to support the charity.

  244. References

    [edit]Notes
    ^ The Spamhaus Project – The Definition Of Spam
    ^ a b Gyongyi, Zoltan; Garcia-Molina, Hector (2005). “Web spam taxonomy”. Proceedings of the First International Workshop on Adversarial Information Retrieval on the Web (AIRWeb), 2005 in The 14th International World Wide Web Conference (WWW 2005) May 10, (Tue)-14 (Sat), 2005, Nippon Convention Center (Makuhari Messe), Chiba, Japan.. New York, N.Y.: ACM Press. ISBN 1-59593-046-9
    ^ “?”. maawg.org.
    ^ FileOn List Builder-Extract URL,MetaTags,Email,Phone,Fax from www-Optimized Webcrawler
    ^ Saul Hansell Social network launches worldwide spam campaign New York Times, September 13, 2007
    ^ The (Evil) Genius of Comment Spammers – Wired Magazine, March 2004
    ^ Fabrício Benevenuto, Tiago Rodrigues, Virgílio Almeida, Jussara Almeida and Marcos Gonçalves. Detecting Spammers and Content Promoters in Online Video Social Networks. In ACM SIGIR Conference, Boston, MA, USA, July 2009..
    ^ a b Joeran Beel and Bela Gipp. Academic search engine spam and google scholar’s resilience against it. Journal of Electronic Publishing, 13(3), December 2010. PDF
    ^ See: Advance fee fraud
    ^ Brasil assume a liderança do spam mundial em 2009, diz Cisco (Portuguese)
    ^ “Getting the message, at last”. The Economist. 2007-12-14.
    ^ “RFC 2635 – DON\x27T SPEW A Set of Guidelines for Mass Unsolicited Mailings and Postings (spam*):”. Retrieved 2010-09-29.
    ^ “The Origin of the word ‘Spam':”. Retrieved 2010-09-20.
    ^ a b Origin of the term “spam” to mean net abuse
    ^ The Origins of Spam in Star Trek chat rooms
    ^ Spamming? (rec.games.mud) – Google Groups USENET archive, 1990-09-26
    ^ a b At 30, Spam Going Nowhere Soon – Interviews with Gary Thuerk and Joel Furr
    ^ Darren Waters (31 march 2008). “Spam blights e-mail 15 years on”. news.bbc.co.uk. Retrieved 26 August 2010.
    ^ “Oxford dictionary adds Net terms” on News.com
    ^ Reaction to the DEC Spam of 1978
    ^ a b c Tom Abate (May 3, 2008). “A very unhappy birthday to spam, age 30″. San Francisco Chronicle.
    ^ Danchev, Dancho. “Spammers go multilingual, use automatic translation services.” ZDNet. July 28, 2009. Retrieved on August 31, 2009.
    ^ “?”. spam.com., Official SPAM Website
    ^ Hormel Foods v SpamArrest, Motion for Summary Judgment, Redacted Version (PDF)
    ^ Hormel Foods Corpn v Antilles Landscape Investments NV (2005) EWHC 13 (Ch)[dead link]
    ^ “Hormel Foods Corporation v. Spam Cube, Inc”. United States Patent and Trademark Office. Retrieved 2008-02-12.
    ^ Letter from Hormel’s Corporate Attorney Melanie J. Neumann to SpamCop’s Julian Haight
    ^ “Data protection: “Junk” e-mail costs internet users 10 billion a year worldwide – Commission study”
    ^ California business and professions code
    ^ Spam Cost Calculator: Calculate enterprise spam cost?
    ^ Shuman Ghosemajumder (18 March 2008). “Using data to help prevent fraud”. Google Blog. Retrieved 12 August 2011.
    ^ Thank the Spammers – William R. James 2003-03-10
    ^ Spamhaus’ “TOP 10 spam service ISPs”
    ^ The 10 Worst ROKSO Spammers
    ^ Kanich, C.; C. Kreibich, K. Levchenko, B. Enright, G. Voelker, V. Paxson and S. Savage (2008-10-28). “Spamalytics: An Empirical Analysis of Spam Marketing Conversion” (PDF). Proceedings of Conference on Computer and Communications Security (CCS). Alexandria, VA, USA. Retrieved 2008-11-05.
    ^ a b Alleged ‘Seattle Spammer’ arrested – CNET News.com
    ^ “Click Trajectories: End-to-End Analysis of the Spam Value Chain”. Journalist’s Resource.org.
    ^ timewarner.com
    ^ See for instance the black list of the French Wikipedia encyclopedia
    ^ U.S. v Jason Smathers and Sean Dunaway, amended complaint, US District Court for the Southern District of New York (2003). Retrieved 7 March 2007, from “?”. thesmokinggun.com.
    ^ Ex-AOL employee pleads guilty in spam case. (2005, February 4). CNN. Retrieved 7 March 2007, from “Ex-AOL employee pleads guilty in spam case”. CNN.com. February 5, 2005. Retrieved 27 August 2010.
    ^ Braver v. Newport Internet Marketing Corporation et al. -U.S. District Court – Western District of Oklahoma (Oklahoma City), 2005-02-22
    ^ “Two Men Sentenced for Running International Pornographic Spamming Business”. United States Department of Justice. October 12, 2007. Retrieved 2007-10-25.
    ^ Gaudin, Sharon, Two Men Convicted Of Spamming Pornography InformationWeek, June 26, 2007
    ^ “Crist Announces First Case Under Florida Anti-Spam Law”. Office of the Florida Attorney General. Retrieved 2008-02-23.
    ^ “Crist: Judgment Ends Duo’s Illegal Spam, Internet Operations”. Office of the Florida Attorney General. Retrieved 2008-02-23.
    ^ “Woman gets prison for ‘Nigerian’ scam”. upi.com.
    ^ “Woman Gets Two Years for Aiding Nigerian Internet Check Scam (PC World)”. yahoo.com.[dead link]
    ^ “Businessman wins e-mail spam case”. BBC News. 27 December 2005. Retrieved 13 November 2011.
    ^ Gordon Dick v Transcom Internet Service Ltd.
    ^ Article 13-Unsolicited communications
    ^ website
    ^ “Kiwi spam network was ‘world’s biggest'”. Stuff.co.nz. 16 October 2008. Retrieved 13 November 2011.
    ^ Court Orders Australia-based Leader of International Spam Network to Pay $15.15 Million
    ^ ЗАКОН ЗА ЕЛЕКТРОННАТА ТЪРГОВИЯ
    ^ Регистър на юридическите лица, които не желаят да получават непоискани търговски съобщения
    [edit]Sources
    Specter, Michael (2007-08-06). “Damn Spam”. The New Yorker. Retrieved 2007-08-02.
    [edit]Further reading

    Sjouwerman, Stu; Posluns, Jeffrey, “Inside the spam cartel: trade secrets from the dark side”, Elsevier/Syngress; 1st edition, November 27, 2004. ISBN 978-1-932266-86-3
    [edit]External links

    Wikimedia Commons has media related to: Electronic spam
    Spamtrackers SpamWiki: a peer-reviewed spam information and analysis resource.
    Federal Trade Commission page advising people to forward spam e-mail to them
    Slamming Spamming Resource on Spam
    Why am I getting all this spam? CDT
    Cybertelecom:: Federal spam law and policy
    Reaction to the DEC Spam of 1978 Overview and text of the first known internet email spam.
    Malware City – The Spam Omelette BitDefender’s weekly report on spam trends and techniques.
    1 December 2009: arrest of a major spammer
    Spam Analysis of 2010 and estimated Spam for 2011 – Article about Spam Analysis of 2010 and estimated Spam for 2011
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  245. blah :
    I personally believe this I have had between 0-3 sexual partners its could be any one of those numbers I’ll let you guess. In reality I think that this entire obsession for males and females about the number of sexual partners they’ve had is 1 for males to do with feeling insufficent and mentally picturing the act of sex and being disgusted by other males private parts which is fair enough. For females they want to be accepted by males and generally whatever bothers a guy about a female will also in alot of cases bother a female about herself. Now someone can be the type of person refered to as a “slut” and go out and get with about 50 people I personally am against this idea but in reality then someone can have 2 sexual partners or 1 and feel guilty about it to feel crap about themselves presenting outwardly how they feel about themselves to project how they think people are seeing them into a reality in someone elses perception. Have you wondered why some females seem to look really nice and have has heaps of had bfs amongst other things its because they dont care about the amount of boyfriends theyve had where as a girl whos had 1 bf and feels guilty about it because she has the belief that sex before marriage is bad might think badly about herself. So the moral to the story is also that lets say we werent living in this society and we were living in times like in previous cult groups in the past bc period when humans were fairly primitive being all over the place sexually would have been considered normal societies base is focused around religion which believes sex before marriage is not really a good option and because majority of the worlds religions believe in the definition of purity when everyone has made mistakes has done things that you could turn around and say theyre not pure for and alot of people just want to make themselves seem nice or maybe they genuinely are who knows but the point is alot of people also want to be accepted. If you care about yourself and not look at the irrelevant things in your life if someone has an issue with something the moment you retaliate with feeling that issue you confirm to them that theyre right no one is right and wrong in my opinion and if its from 1-100 or whatever limit you can think of guys youve slept with in reality the issue with this number lies with you and not anyone else, if you are worried what a guy will think of you then maybe stay away from guys that will judge you and have this opinion that females should be almost like a possesion for a female notice when a guy says why would you buy a used car as a comparison and its ridiculous, imagine if females were to say the same thing about males? date someone more accepting who doesn’t think about
    things like that I personally myself would not want to be in a relationship with someone who thinks they own me I wouldn’t imagine in my opinion that they’d be a good catch because anyone can have a slip up and if you dont meet their standards maybe youre not pretty anymore they’ll just judge you. I hope I havent offended anyone but I think people posting these questions need to stop trying a magic formula number like 5 20 50 100 is fine if i exceed this limit theres something wrong with me if you think something is wrong with you anyone there will be.Also one other thing is females calling other females sluts which i would never do confirms in alot of males silly heads thats ok everyone wants to appear nice to their bfs but I think constantly saying omg ive only had 1 bf to your bf makes him think about oh wow all other females arent as good as my gf whos had 1 bf then what happens is all these guys that eventually break up with their gfs go off into the playing field again and theyre the ones that might be likely to judge someone because it was their gf that had an issue with it and mentioned itin the first place! If you dont want to create a race of guys that judge females based on these things stop drawing attention to it when theres no need to, the only effect is in creating guys that actually do care

    amen

  246. I’m 45 year old male and I’m very confused
    how sexual relationships have changed. Woman have complained about men trying to
    shag eberything that moves for years and now woman want to out fuck, drink, fight, us.
    The simple fact is woman were always the gate keepers. You kept us in check made us
    better men, fathers, lovers etc. Now you just
    want to out do us.
    What happened to classy? Seriously
    how hard is it for a woman to go out
    and get shagged! A woman could go
    out every night a find a man to bang.
    For a man, even if you are a smokin hot panty droppin specialist. You may get lucky
    once or twice a week and that’s if you got
    game and you don’t have high standards
    for what you are shaggin. There is a reason
    it use to be called getting lucky.
    Now if you want to go out and bang all the men you want too good for you, but when it
    comes time to settle down, I can tell no man
    is going to want a woman that can’t keep her
    panties on. Sorry, men love party girls to bang but we don’t want a woman that has slept with a ton of guys. I don’t want to be
    watching football on Sunday and thinking
    there are 22 guys on the field playing and
    my girl has banged 60 something guys, so
    basically three football games worth of men?
    I could see 20-30 before marriage as long as
    it wasn’t 20 one night stands. If you have so easily dropped your panties for some smooth
    talking bar guy, itimacy really won’t feel special because you so easily gave it away.
    Bottom line, you man is going to want to respect you and most men wont. I’m not saying it’s ok for men either. I wouldn’t want
    a husband that banged everything that moves either. Just remember if you have to
    lie to hide who you are to the one you want
    to marry than you do care what people think.
    Bring sexy classy back!! Please!

  247. About thirty, but in a couple of cases we didn’t sleep.
    Additional data you didn’t ask for:
    black
    white
    chinese
    japanese
    dusun
    indian (asia)
    indian (native american)
    chola (south american)

    I lost a lot of time due to being married three times.

  248. why do we lie?
    Some women and men, on occasion, even lie and say that they’ve slept with more men than they actually have just because they want to give the impression that they’re experienced. As I’ve told many people an endless amount of times, a woman could have slept with just one man, but if they were a creative and passionate couple, then that’s all the experience she needs. One-night stands can be incredibly erotic and unabashed, but you don’t know anything about the other person; for instance, what turns them on and what drives them wild.

    Why should it matter how many men she has slept with? Shouldn’t the fact that the two of you are together at the moment be enough? Apparently not.
    some things better left unsaid
    Should you even be asking this question? I know quite a few women who went ballistic on their men for even attempting to broach the topic. Why? Because they feel like you’re sizing them up.

    Perhaps that whole “I want to marry a virgin” idealism has changed into “I want to marry a girl who hasn’t slept with more than five guys.” After all, we are in the midst of a sex fest.

    In any sexual relationship, your sexual past must be shared to a certain extent, so if you plan to interrogate her, prepare for a reciprocal interrogation. And don’t start asking the questions after you’ve had sex; find out all these things as the relationship progresses.

    If you’re an open-minded individual who has no skeletons in the closet, then appreciate her honesty and remember that the past is over and done with.
    the more the merrier
    Sometimes, women will get very turned off at the notion that you’re the male equivalent of a dildo with a pulse, and hearing that you’ve slept with many women would not give her chills down the back of her spine; rather it will give her a nauseous feeling in the back of her throat.

    Perhaps “the boys” appreciate hearing about your sexual takeovers, but most women aren’t taken with male sluts. Oh, and don’t give a ballpark figure like “somewhere between 15 and 30″; that’s like women saying “it’s somewhere between two and 17.”
    safety measures
    No matter how many partners you’ve had, safety is the most important aspect of it all. If you haven’t been on the up and up with most of the women you’ve slept with, or if you flake off when it comes to condom use, I suggest that you be very careful.

    First off, visit your general practitioner to make sure that everything’s okay. Next, use condoms so you a) don’t get her pregnant, and b) don’t transmit any diseases.

    If you do plan to make this particular woman yours for good, then perhaps her sexual history can be overlooked. If you truly love her, you’ll be able to forgive her sexual “experience” and it won’t affect your temperament or opinion of her in the least. But if it does irk you and you feel like you can’t get past it, then save her and yourself some time and move on.

    Read more: http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi/31b_dating_girl.html#ixzz1hDjld9g8

  249. You’ve been dating your girlfriend for over three months and you’re dying to ask how many other men she has bedded before you. In fact, that question is probably itching her brain just as much.

    So what will you do? Will you tell her the real number or opt to keep the peace and lie your smiley butt off? What about her? Do you think she’ll tell the truth? Well, the sad fact remains that hardly anyone ever tells the truth in regards to their sexual past.

    Why? What’s the big deal, right? Wrong. No matter what people say, hearing that your girlfriend has bedded 17 men before you and she’s only 23 years old, yeah, that’s kind of a stretch (no pun intended). At the same time, hearing that a boyfriend has bedded over 30 women when he’s only 25 is equally disturbing. Whether we like it or not, we’ll end up defining what was once our cutie pie as not so “pure”.
    The Truth Has 100 Legs
    Isn’t it strange that if a woman has slept with three partners, but was having sex three times a day in 15-month periods, that’s fine? But if she has bedded 20 guys and had sex a total of 50 times, she’s ho -rrible. So is honesty really the best policy in this case?

    Upon discussing this with some of my female friends, they insisted that men have no right to ask that kind of question. But really, sex is the most sacred move that two people can make. Shouldn’t sexual history count for something?

    It’s obvious that men and women in today’s society regard sex differently from the way their parents viewed it. Unfortunately, we’ve begun to use sex as a tool for selling products, as a weapon, and as a cockeyed definition of love.
    One-Night Lady
    Would you take a woman seriously if you got to sleep with her on the first night? Probably not, it was too easy. If she made you wait for four months and, after you slept with her, she revealed that she had been with 20 men before you, would you still take her seriously?

    And what about yourself? Would you honestly tell a woman that you had bedded over 20 women, or would you be ashamed? Because, although you claim that they were easy, I think it’s safe to say that you were quite easy yourself.

    Is keeping the truth to yourself your best bet (or hers)? Well, if you’ve been unsafe and haven’t been checked out, then honesty is a must — and don’t have sex with her and then tell her. The last thing you want to do is be responsible for someone else’s downfall.

  250. Well I guess I’ll put myself out there. However before I do, let me just say that I’m not a dog. I have never had a monogomous relationship so therefore I have never cheated on anyone. I am a perfect gentleman. I believe in chivalry as I have proven to many many women by opening their doors, pulling their chairs out for them and many other chivalrous things. I’m a 21 year old college student. I’m very popular on campus and I’m very involved with many organizations including 3 fraternities. I’ve been sexually active since the age of 14 and every since then I’ve been addicted to sex. I’m not cocky nor am I arrogant but I’m very confident in myself. I’ve had many sexual relationships with nothing but women. I do keep an accurate count of how many women I’ve had sex with and the last time I counted I was up to 393. I’ve had over 150 one night stands with many women that I don’t even remember. I’ve had 3somes, I’ve had 4somes, and I’ve slept with almost the entire dance team at my university. I’ve had two women competing over who was better in bed. Yes I get tested every 2 months for every STD and AIDS, and fortunately I’ve never been infected at all. I love what I’m doing and I don’t plan to stop anytime soon.

  251. 28 years old – slept with 4 guys n 1 girl – 4 of them were my partner at the time. Ironically, the one night stand is the only one I didn’t regret getting involve, cos at least the emotional side of things didn’t get messy. I wouldn’t want to be a virgin, but I would choose differently if I get to do it again. I would do things more the old fashion way, instead of hooking up, then fall into a relationship.

  252. Wow I can’t believe that anyone could have sex with more than 10 people. Gross. I am 22 years old and have had sex with 3 guys. I lost my virginity on my 17th birthday to my boyfriend that I was with since I was 14. I broke up with him when I was 20, after 6 years of being with him. I started dating someone else right away and had sex with him after 2 months. I was with him for 4 months. He broke up with me to go back with his ex girlfriend. My 3rd was with a guy I used to be friends with in elementary school. We did the whole friends with benefits thing for 9 months, he eventually wanted more and I didn’t so that ended. My 4th was with an actor I met, who was married. I slept with him a couple times over a 3 month period but then started falling for him hard and had to end it. I was feeling horrible, I’ve always hated people who cheat and I was becoming one of those girls that cheat with married men. A month after I ended it, I read his wife is pregnant. I still haven’t gotten over that and won’t for a while. I haven’t had sex in about 4 months and I’m going to wait until I’m in a serious relationship.

  253. Sweetie,

    Your developing, experimenting and learning about yourself and relationships. Being a sexual sensual woman is a great thing. So,
    please don’t beat yourself up about the number because ten isn’t much at all. It sounds like you have learned something about yourself and your values. One night
    stands are ok from time to time but it isn’t
    the connection you are really looking for.

    You must learn to develop your own sexual
    boundaries. I would suggest dating. You can
    determine the timeline for when, where and how you want the relationship to develop into a sexual one. Maybe, you date for weeks
    or maybe a month or so before you progress.
    This will help you determine if there is a connection and you have feelings for them.

    I’m old, 45 year old male. My experience is that when you have that connection which doesn’t happen overnight, the sex can be amazing because of the feelings involved not
    just the sexual physical pleasure. There is nothing wrong walking home knowing you just shagged the shit out of your boyfriend.
    I think you really discovered the difference with you recent boyfriend, and if a man is truly into you. He will wait until you are ready
    and if he doesn’t. He isn’t worthy of being able to enjoy you and what you have to offer.
    You control the gates to heaven and men will
    climb mountains to get there if you make them. The dating helps with finding out if something is there.

    What concerns me the most is the boy who pressed you. No means no. What he did shows him to be a predator and he should
    be in jail. You did nothing wrong. Never ever
    forget its your decision no one elses.

    So, when you are ready…go find your next love and be the best dam girlfriend you can.
    And you don’t immediately have to explain
    your sex life and you dont have to lie or hide.
    Just tell them, when I get to know you better
    that’s something we could discuss and in six months to a year or when you feel its right then be open about what you have learned.

    Good luck on your love journey…

    Johnny Ray

  254. but oh, the one about getting black out drunk, he told me i just gave him head. thats what his friends told me too. the only reason i count it is because i dont want to somehow be wrong. but i dont think i am. he would have told me. the person who told me we had sex isnt exactly reliable

    Anonymous :
    I’m 18 years old and at a university. Before college I had had sex with one guy. He was my boyfriend and it was a huge deal that we even did it. We officially broke up during my senior year, but still were emotionally connected until I got into college. I had never drank before, and apparently my school is a party school. I ended up drinking a lot and making out with a whole bunch of different guys one night. After that it was all downhill. I had sex with 8 guys in a very short amount of time ( 2-3 months). The first I actually really liked. He and I were kind of friends with benefits for a bit, but he booty called me and I was upset and got over him. Then I turned into a slut. Next guy was met him at a party, we ended up leaving together and had a great night together. He was so sweet and sang to me and held me and we had amazing sex all night. Next morning, I get a call from his girlfriend. Awesome. Next guy was a completely random not even that great of a person guy. We ended up hooking up again one more time but that went nowhere. Next guy was I went to a fraternities’ preference (a big fancy dinner), and I was talking to this guy the whole night. He kept giving me drinks and I was an idiot. There was an after party, and I blacked out. One person told me he and I had sex. Next guy was a complete random at a party, we just went upstairs and did it. He doesn’t remember me, I don’t remember his name. I wish I could. Next one was a guy who I had been talking to for awhile, but nothing had really happened with us. We weren’t even really attracted to each other (i thought he was sweet and kind of cute but not like that, he had told me he liked my friend). We ended up playing king’s cup with 2 of our friends. Those 2 friends wanted to hook up, so they wanted to make sure we had each other. I’m not really sure how that made sense, but, drunk logic. So he and I ended up having sex and he was really sweet about it, but it was terrible. He kept saying I had such beautiful eyes and it was completely dark in the room. Now he avoids me. At this point my sister got upset with me for my behavior and I realized how stupid I was being. I made a decision in my head to not be like that anymore. A while later I was at a fraternity with some friends (not a party, but a good amount of drinking) and this one guy took me up to his room so I could change into a sweater because I was in a dress. He and I somehow laid down in bed to go to sleep, and he totally pressed himself on me. I said no many times. However, I was drunk and eventually I stopped fighting. I wanted to press charges but I felt like this was my payback for how I had acted before so I just kept my mouth shut. Then there was a guy who I had been talking to/hanging out with for awhile. He was really nice and he and I seemed to be on the same level with things. I liked him a lot. We ended up having sex after he promised me it wouldn’t be awkward afterwards. It wasn’t for awhile, but things definitely weren’t peachy after that. Then I ended up meeting this amazing guy. And I fell in love fast. And hard. But after only dating a week or so, he asked me about my past. I gave him a slightly amended version (I told him the right number, but I knew I wasn’t going to tell him who 2 of the people were, the one I liked right before him and the one who pressed me.) He ended up freaking out. Understandable, he has strict standards and I was a slut. Somehow, he kind of got over it and ended up making me his girlfriend. Our sex was to the moon. It really was making love. We were incredible together, but he wasn’t really over it. He found out about me lying about one of the guys (the one I liked). I lied about it because it was on the night of his birthday and I didn’t want to hurt his feelings. Stupid, I know. But he found out. We were rocky but made it through it. Then a bit later I felt terrible about lying to him about the other guy. So I told him. He dumped me. But then when he found out more details, he really was there for me to help me get through everything. Even though we weren’t together. He was so sweet, but he was so upset with me for lying to him. So we were in a strange place. We acted like we were together but we weren’t. Now I’m on break from college and he just got upset over all of this again. And he decided we’re done. He can’t get over it, he can’t get over me lying, and he can’t get over my past. I understand. Now I’m not going to have sex again until I’m positive that I want to spend my life with the person. I hope the last one somehow gets over all of this and wants me again. But I doubt he will. I felt like even more of a slut than I already did after all of this. So I came on here to feel less sucky. I needed to get this all out there. I really don’t know what to do. So, in total, 18 year old female, 10 partners.

  255. I’m 18 years old and at a university. Before college I had had sex with one guy. He was my boyfriend and it was a huge deal that we even did it. We officially broke up during my senior year, but still were emotionally connected until I got into college. I had never drank before, and apparently my school is a party school. I ended up drinking a lot and making out with a whole bunch of different guys one night. After that it was all downhill. I had sex with 8 guys in a very short amount of time ( 2-3 months). The first I actually really liked. He and I were kind of friends with benefits for a bit, but he booty called me and I was upset and got over him. Then I turned into a slut. Next guy was met him at a party, we ended up leaving together and had a great night together. He was so sweet and sang to me and held me and we had amazing sex all night. Next morning, I get a call from his girlfriend. Awesome. Next guy was a completely random not even that great of a person guy. We ended up hooking up again one more time but that went nowhere. Next guy was I went to a fraternities’ preference (a big fancy dinner), and I was talking to this guy the whole night. He kept giving me drinks and I was an idiot. There was an after party, and I blacked out. One person told me he and I had sex. Next guy was a complete random at a party, we just went upstairs and did it. He doesn’t remember me, I don’t remember his name. I wish I could. Next one was a guy who I had been talking to for awhile, but nothing had really happened with us. We weren’t even really attracted to each other (i thought he was sweet and kind of cute but not like that, he had told me he liked my friend). We ended up playing king’s cup with 2 of our friends. Those 2 friends wanted to hook up, so they wanted to make sure we had each other. I’m not really sure how that made sense, but, drunk logic. So he and I ended up having sex and he was really sweet about it, but it was terrible. He kept saying I had such beautiful eyes and it was completely dark in the room. Now he avoids me. At this point my sister got upset with me for my behavior and I realized how stupid I was being. I made a decision in my head to not be like that anymore. A while later I was at a fraternity with some friends (not a party, but a good amount of drinking) and this one guy took me up to his room so I could change into a sweater because I was in a dress. He and I somehow laid down in bed to go to sleep, and he totally pressed himself on me. I said no many times. However, I was drunk and eventually I stopped fighting. I wanted to press charges but I felt like this was my payback for how I had acted before so I just kept my mouth shut. Then there was a guy who I had been talking to/hanging out with for awhile. He was really nice and he and I seemed to be on the same level with things. I liked him a lot. We ended up having sex after he promised me it wouldn’t be awkward afterwards. It wasn’t for awhile, but things definitely weren’t peachy after that. Then I ended up meeting this amazing guy. And I fell in love fast. And hard. But after only dating a week or so, he asked me about my past. I gave him a slightly amended version (I told him the right number, but I knew I wasn’t going to tell him who 2 of the people were, the one I liked right before him and the one who pressed me.) He ended up freaking out. Understandable, he has strict standards and I was a slut. Somehow, he kind of got over it and ended up making me his girlfriend. Our sex was to the moon. It really was making love. We were incredible together, but he wasn’t really over it. He found out about me lying about one of the guys (the one I liked). I lied about it because it was on the night of his birthday and I didn’t want to hurt his feelings. Stupid, I know. But he found out. We were rocky but made it through it. Then a bit later I felt terrible about lying to him about the other guy. So I told him. He dumped me. But then when he found out more details, he really was there for me to help me get through everything. Even though we weren’t together. He was so sweet, but he was so upset with me for lying to him. So we were in a strange place. We acted like we were together but we weren’t. Now I’m on break from college and he just got upset over all of this again. And he decided we’re done. He can’t get over it, he can’t get over me lying, and he can’t get over my past. I understand. Now I’m not going to have sex again until I’m positive that I want to spend my life with the person. I hope the last one somehow gets over all of this and wants me again. But I doubt he will. I felt like even more of a slut than I already did after all of this. So I came on here to feel less sucky. I needed to get this all out there. I really don’t know what to do. So, in total, 18 year old female, 10 partners.

  256. I’m 23, 24 in March. I have had 19 sexual partners (1 female in 3 some). I actually have been getting down for having so many…but ready other people’s numbers made me feel better. I can’t help I like guys & sex…however, I do feel that I need to take it easy because I am filling a void, loneliness perhaps. Out of all the sexual partners only 1/5 of them I had repeated encounters with, meaning 80% have been one nightstand :(

  257. I’m 14 years old, I’ve made many mistakes because I’ve had sex with 10 people but I’ve now matured to only do it with people without being forced and not being comfy that’s why I will only do it with my 2month relation ship with my boyfriend but so I know he not one of those chuck and fuck guys I’m leaving him waiting 5months till we do anything,.

  258. I’m 22 I had a long term relationship for 7 years we broke up months ago I’m starting to date again is it bad that I’ve only been with one guy???

  259. I’m 45 year old male and I’m very confused
    how sexual relationships have changed. Woman have complained about men trying to
    shag eberything that moves for years and now woman want to out fuck, drink, fight, us.

    The simple fact is woman were always the gate keepers. You kept us in check made us
    better men, fathers, lovers etc. Now you just
    want to out do us.

    What happened to classy? Seriously
    how hard is it for a woman to go out
    and get shagged! A woman could go
    out every night a find a man to bang.
    For a man, even if you are a smokin hot panty droppin specialist. You may get lucky
    once or twice a week and that’s if you got
    game and you don’t have high standards
    for what you are shaggin. There is a reason
    it use to be called getting lucky.

    Now if you want to go out and bang all the men you want too good for you, but when it
    comes time to settle down, I can tell no man
    is going to want a woman that can’t keep her
    panties on. Sorry, men love party girls to bang but we don’t want a woman that has slept with a ton of guys. I don’t want to be
    watching football on Sunday and thinking
    there are 22 guys on the field playing and
    my girl has banged 60 something guys, so
    basically three football games worth of men?

    I could see 20-30 before marriage as long as
    it wasn’t 20 one night stands. If you have so easily dropped your panties for some smooth
    talking bar guy, itimacy really won’t feel special because you so easily gave it away.

    Bottom line, you man is going to want to respect you and most men wont. I’m not saying it’s ok for men either. I wouldn’t want
    a husband that banged everything that moves either. Just remember if you have to
    lie to hide who you are to the one you want
    to marry than you do care what people think.
    Bring sexy classy back!! Please!

  260. I’m 14 and 8 months and I’ve had sex with 2 lads(1 was a boyfriend) but had intercourse with 4(2 being boyfriends) is this bad?

  261. I’m an 18 y/o female and have had one sexual partner, my boyfriend of nearly 2 years. Am I missing out?

  262. Anonymous :
    female im 30 = sex with 243 guys and gals have done some swinging….. people r so judgemental of others… its my body, its my life and i’ll fuck who i want when i want simple as but i can tell you i have never had unprotected sex or had an STD. i simply love to fuck

    i`m 23 and i had sex with over 35 females and 6 boys (blow-jobs and stuff, not the whole way, not yet)

    Society it`s to critical, start caring less about what other think, and just act.

  263. 36 yr old male… 271 women, 90% first time we met, kissed maybe 40 of the 271 women… Sucks cause now I’m spoiled, I view women as sex objects mostly, I move on if I don’t get my way, I get bored very easily! Wish I could fall in love but its hard now… Jealous of guys who can sleep with the same girl over & over & still be turned on… Hopefully I can change one day. :(

  264. 23 male, i only had one sex experience when i was 18,one night stand. after that i fell bad. but i wanna have more experience.girls like are experienced guy :)it’s good for both.

  265. Brittany :
    14 female. I have had one sex partner. That would be my boyfriend of 6 1/2 months. Have no regrets we both love each other very much

    ur jus gettin started girl!! get off the computer and tell your parents to put a lock on that shit.

  266. A good friend of mine told me he’d met a really lovely attractive woman. They became very close and she wanted to make love with him. A discussion took place about sexual past history. He’s had 4 past partners and this woman disclosed around 9o . His view on this was how long would she want him around after they’d made love a few times? I can understand this totally. Shes 28 and He,s 32. This is a sweeping statement and I’ll get shot down for it by many. Most men think of having sex with as many women as they can, well when We,re young anyway. Most women on the other hand are far more choosey. Its generally the way We,re made. Society I believe will continue and does frown more on women that have a high number of sexual partners. I personally do not believe a high number is a desirable asset, male or female. p s he finished the relationship because of her past and she was utterly devastated.

  267. Why regret? Oh girls, come on, you have not did anything bad to anybody, stop mentally punishing yourself for the number of sexual partners. Guys don’t do that, why should you? I’ve had 36 and my boyfriend knows and loves me very much.

  268. Jasmine :
    i’m 14 and slept with 7 guys, does this make me a slag?

    Yess, when I was 14 I had been with one guy and even then I got called a slag, by 15 it was 2 lads, 16 it was 9 lads, 17 it was 15 & I’m almost 18 and lie to people about how many I’ve been with because I feel horrible…..

    You’ll regret it when you’re abit older.

  269. giselle :
    I’m 19 had sex with 35 guys. Does that make me a whore?

    i dont know if it makes you a whore but it sure makes me feel better about 10 guys at 18. lol

  270. Anonymous :
    I’m 19 and have 30 partners and I’ve had an STD or two before but I don’t believe there’s anything wrong especially since it’s my past and I’m now looking for long term relationship. As long as ur happy and satisfied it shouldn’t matter and if ur with a current partner he/she should accept you and move toward…

    Thank u lawwdd finally somebody n my range!! Well im 20 will be 21 in Jan and ive had sex with 27 men …a couple i dated and how ironically those where the ones i caught a STD from. i Slowed down after i turn 18. I lost my virginity when i was 17 …after that as u can see i went crazy. Just like a guy. Lol. Well im done i havent had sex since May 2011 (Yes 4 months & still counting of my celibacy!) and im doin preety good! Ive talked to about 3 guys & havent had sex with one! Plenty flirting tho ;) lol. I wish i could take back my past but then again I dont. Im perfectly fine how i am me and my numbers lol cuz now my husband is going to be flabbergasted of how good my experienced sex game is haha ;)

  271. Anonymous :
    female im 30 = sex with 243 guys and gals have done some swinging….. people r so judgemental of others… its my body, its my life and i’ll fuck who i want when i want simple as but i can tell you i have never had unprotected sex or had an STD. i simply love to fuck

    agree with this! people shouldn’t judge.. especially don’t get why chicks are judged more than lads! GRRRR. Can I ask though, how have you kept count of 243 partners???! x

  272. female im 30 = sex with 243 guys and gals have done some swinging….. people r so judgemental of others… its my body, its my life and i’ll fuck who i want when i want simple as but i can tell you i have never had unprotected sex or had an STD. i simply love to fuck

  273. To my fellow nymphos, I am a 23 year old female and have had 21 male partners plus 1 girl (which was a 3some). Two of my partners were boyfriends. I honesty hate how society looks down on women that enjoy sex as much as men do. I love sex an proud to say it! Most of the guys I’ve slept with were during my college years. I think I did it because I was looking for a person to satisfy me in every way lol. I can honestly say that only two of the guys on my list were the best sex I’ve ever had! It kind of sucks now because both my boyfriends were ok in bed. I wish the sex was better between me and my current boyfriend, guess its making love now huh? But is it bad that I don’t want to make love? I want wild sex not love! Lol

  274. I’m 20 and I’ve had 14 partners.. I don’t know if that’s a lot or not, I’d like to think it’s not.

  275. @ 36 i HAVE BEEN IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP FINALLY FOR 3 YEARS BUT BEFORE HIM I’VE HAD ABOUT 35 GUYS – 1 INDIAN – 1 AFRICAN – 5 WHITE GUYS – 1 TURKISH – 1 BRITISH AND THE REST BLACK MANDINGOS!!!!

  276. I am a 29 year old girl and I am super sexy. I have had 40 sex partners. 2 of which were girls. I am not proud of it nor am I ashamed. I have found the man of my dreams. we have been together 2 years now. I love him very much and no man could ever take me away from him. I have a list of every partner I have ever been with and it is very accurate. I am done now, in love and ready to get married for the first time. Ive never had kids either.

  277. Also I have medical insurance. I get checked every few months I’ve never had an STD or STI or HIV or AIDS. For comment down there

  278. I’m 20 years old.lost my virginity at age 14. And I’ve had sex with over 40 different men about 10 of them were my boyfriend, the rest were in between boyfriends. I’ve lived all over the world for a couple years at each destination therefore didn’t have a chance to stick to one boyfriend forever. I WOULD NEVER TELL ANYONE MY REAL NUMBER ;) IF THEY ASK UNDER 10

  279. I’m male 44 and have had just 3 sexual partners. My partner has had 11. However she’s messed about with probably a further 8 – 1o . I think she’s a wonderful attractive woman but i often picture her with past partners. Do i wish I’d of had more partners? Well at times yes, however I’m only really happy in long term relationships which my past partners have all been.

  280. Hey giselle i’m the same age as you and had 36 :)) . Last anonymous, you can’t understand because you’re stupid. And a liar, also. First said you had sex with 3 guys and then you started to talk about the fourth one :)))) .

  281. Wow I can’t believe that anyone could have sex with more than 10 people. Gross. I am 22 years old and have had sex with 3 guys. I lost my virginity on my 17th birthday to my boyfriend that I was with since I was 14. I broke up with him when I was 20, after 6 years of being with him. I started dating someone else right away and had sex with him after 2 months. I was with him for 4 months. He broke up with me to go back with his ex girlfriend. My 3rd was with a guy I used to be friends with in elementary school. We did the whole friends with benefits thing for 9 months, he eventually wanted more and I didn’t so that ended. My 4th was with an actor I met, who was married. I slept with him a couple times over a 3 month period but then started falling for him hard and had to end it. I was feeling horrible, I’ve always hated people who cheat and I was becoming one of those girls that cheat with married men. A month after I ended it, I read his wife is pregnant. I still haven’t gotten over that and won’t for a while. I haven’t had sex in about 4 months and I’m going to wait until I’m in a serious relationship.

  282. Wow after reading all of this I guess I don’t feel too bad. …I’m 26 years old and ha be slept w 23 guys. … I was in a 5 years relationship n we broke up about 2 years ago. … I guess I was hurt and went on a rampage. … slept w approximately 17 guys in those 2 years. ..I guess it gets old. … and now I’m once again looking for a serious relationship. ..yes I’m single no kids n I have checked myself for studs and HIV/ aids. … my pussy is tight n well ofcourse I would never say my real number. ..to everyone the last man in my life was my ex. …..

  283. I am 20 and have been with 6 men. One of those 6 is my husband, and we have 2 children together, now. I lost my virginity to my then boyfriend, at 15… completely regret, of course. I broke up with him less than a month later, ’cause he sucked all-around. My second partner was my exboyfriend, who I was still absolutely obsessed with, we had sex a few times… that honestly didn’t last very long each time. So, by 16, I’d slept with two guys. After my exboyfriend, I had sex with this hot guy I was lusting over big time. I regret that, too. We had sex twice. After that, I had sex once with a guy I THOUGHT was really into me, we hung out for about a month or so, then we finally had sex, which actually didn’t suck… but then I never heard from him again. Real hard blow to my self-esteem. The 5th guy, I really don’t want to count, but I must, because his penis Did enter my vagina… but he sucked, I made him stop. Ugh, total regret!!! And then finally, the 6th one, my husband. No one but him since.

  284. amber :
    Wow, sad… I’m 23 and have been with 4 guys and am now married. Why do people think the more sexual partners they have the better, it just makes things more complicated, and gives you more chances to get fucked over…Hello…stds, unwanted pregnancies, syco stalkers…Come on people. I personally think man whores are just as nasty as women whores (and the # doesn’t tilt for the guys why should it, it’s bullshit that guys are envied for being whores while women who do the same are looked down on, it doesn’t matter what sex either way your disrespecting yourself and numbing yourself so you’ll never find that 1 person who’ll want to grow old with you.. Stupid!!

    24 years old and been with about 15 guys. At least I can spell psycho. Maybe you should spend less time being so judgmental and go get an education. haha

  285. 19 year old female
    I have sex with 6 partners n 2 friend wit benefits. I started having sex wen I was 15 but officially at 16. I kind of had 2 partners a year. I dnt count my 2 friends cuz it was just messing around. I dnt feel bad because I know I’m not a slut and every body has their own morals. Every guy I slept with respected me and I know I respect myself. I’m only ashamed that I cheated on my boyfriend with 4 of them. Idk things were wrong and wen I started college I got 2 partners their and messed around wit a friend. 1 either was a close friend. I dnt feel bad about my 6 partners. Wen pp ask I usually say 6 just cuz messing around wit friends aren’t a big deal but I learned n its sumthin I don’t want to do. Haven’t had any new partners

  286. Oh n the comment below, just to add. I know that based upon that number I am a slut, a whore, a nasty slag, a cum depository, but I’m warning you men out there, you couldn’t tell by looking at me, raised in a wealthy family, I’m well dressed, well groomed, straight a student, can hold an intelligent convo, n my pussy is tight, n I never admit the truth, so you all have no idea what your really sleeping with, don’t believe the hype.

  287. I’m a 24 year old Californian female, by the age of 18-19 I had had sexual relations with over 100 men. I’ve only had around 4 different partners in the last five years. I started having sex at age 14.
    Socially unacceptable, and highly looked down upon, some may call it dysfunctional, but Ide say I’m pretty functional ;-D I never tell anyone my real number.

  288. i am 20 year old female. i have fucked 15 men. i wont fuck anymore for the rest of my life. i intend on marrying someone from my list :)

  289. I’m 19 and have 30 partners and I’ve had an STD or two before but I don’t believe there’s anything wrong especially since it’s my past and I’m now looking for long term relationship. As long as ur happy and satisfied it shouldn’t matter and if ur with a current partner he/she should accept you and move toward…

  290. curtis :
    I am a male. I have had sex with 3 women my whole life. I am 32. I first had sex when i was 15 got married at 18. She cheated on me and i divorced her had a one night stand then got married and am happily married for 9 years.

    Not that badd

  291. Anonymous :
    Female 24 years old married my husband who is the love of my life my first kiss. But at the time we didnt know that we were going to marry each other. I had sex with another man for 1 minute and told him to stop because I knew it was wrong at the age of 17 a few days later me and my husband started talking and have been together ever since. That 1 minute is all I have ever done with someone else but I feel so guilty idk why. I have only given oral to my husband only as well.

    Ehh not bad we all make mistakes but atleast u didnt have sex with 3 -1000 ppl like some nasty ones

  292. I am a 21 year old female, and I have had 23 partners. I lost my virginity at age 14. Married w two kids now. Lml

  293. Female 24 years old married my husband who is the love of my life my first kiss. But at the time we didnt know that we were going to marry each other. I had sex with another man for 1 minute and told him to stop because I knew it was wrong at the age of 17 a few days later me and my husband started talking and have been together ever since. That 1 minute is all I have ever done with someone else but I feel so guilty idk why. I have only given oral to my husband only as well.

  294. 22yr male 6 partners havent fuckd that much thoughactive for 3 years how da fuck do yall get around like that im not inflatin my number to look good either

  295. I am a male. I have had sex with 3 women my whole life. I am 32. I first had sex when i was 15 got married at 18. She cheated on me and i divorced her had a one night stand then got married and am happily married for 9 years.

  296. im 32 female been a escort for 8 years and been married and swing.been with 3856 men 374 women.

  297. linda :
    I had sex with 70 males in two years STD free =)

    You can’t know that. Shit…you can’t be tested for more than 100 types of hpv unless you have an outbreak and a Dr cuts off a sample to identify. I’ve worked helping people be a little safter, HPV is not tested for and it’s rampant because of that.

  298. Jesus christ. You are a HUGE whore! In 13 yrs I’ve only had 37 partners and I’m very sexually open. Maybe it should actually mean something to you, shit.
    Dre :
    Well I guess I’ll put myself out there. However before I do, let me just say that I’m not a dog. I have never had a monogomous relationship so therefore I have never cheated on anyone. I am a perfect gentleman. I believe in chivalry as I have proven to many many women by opening their doors, pulling their chairs out for them and many other chivalrous things. I’m a 21 year old college student. I’m very popular on campus and I’m very involved with many organizations including 3 fraternities. I’ve been sexually active since the age of 14 and every since then I’ve been addicted to sex. I’m not cocky nor am I arrogant but I’m very confident in myself. I’ve had many sexual relationships with nothing but women. I do keep an accurate count of how many women I’ve had sex with and the last time I counted I was up to 393. I’ve had over 150 one night stands with many women that I don’t even remember. I’ve had 3somes, I’ve had 4somes, and I’ve slept with almost the entire dance team at my university. I’ve had two women competing over who was better in bed. Yes I get tested every 2 months for every STD and AIDS, and fortunately I’ve never been infected at all. I love what I’m doing and I don’t plan to stop anytime soon.

    I’m a 28 single female, I’ve had 37 partners in 13 years. I’d say that was pretty moderate….however, 80% of sexually active adults have HPV, food for thought. Be careful.

  299. I’m a 28 single female, I’ve had 37 partners in 13 years. I’d say that was pretty moderate….however, 80% of sexually active adults have HPV, food for thought. Be careful.

  300. 19 years old, and 16 males, 1 female. 2 were boyfriends, and rest of them were fuck buddies, one night stands. Lost my virginity when i was 16.

  301. 35 partners , 19 y old female. have been raped at age 14 and lost my boundaries, for a while i felt worthless and i couldn’t say no to anyone.

  302. I started fucking at 9. A friends father caught us sucking each others tits one day on the side of the house. From that day on he fucked me every chance he got. By the time I 12 he had turned me into a whore. Doing the summers I would tell my parents i had summer school but spent all day at motels were he bring men to fuck me. I tried to remember at least most their faces and i would say I been with over 300 men and 30 women.

  303. Well I guess I’ll put myself out there. However before I do, let me just say that I’m not a dog. I have never had a monogomous relationship so therefore I have never cheated on anyone. I am a perfect gentleman. I believe in chivalry as I have proven to many many women by opening their doors, pulling their chairs out for them and many other chivalrous things. I’m a 21 year old college student. I’m very popular on campus and I’m very involved with many organizations including 3 fraternities. I’ve been sexually active since the age of 14 and every since then I’ve been addicted to sex. I’m not cocky nor am I arrogant but I’m very confident in myself. I’ve had many sexual relationships with nothing but women. I do keep an accurate count of how many women I’ve had sex with and the last time I counted I was up to 393. I’ve had over 150 one night stands with many women that I don’t even remember. I’ve had 3somes, I’ve had 4somes, and I’ve slept with almost the entire dance team at my university. I’ve had two women competing over who was better in bed. Yes I get tested every 2 months for every STD and AIDS, and fortunately I’ve never been infected at all. I love what I’m doing and I don’t plan to stop anytime soon.

  304. I am 23 and have had sex with about 8 guys. – 2 of them bf’s and the other 8 one night stands that sometimes led to fuck buddies. I know it’s slurry like but it’s just that when I get really horny, I feel like I loose all sense of morality. I typically have sex with pple online, one night stands and no string attached and sometimes it leads to fuck buddies. I need help. I always feel so horrible afterwards tho.. Cos I have cheated on ever single bf I have ever known.. And they have been nothing but the best bf’s ever but they were all long distance relationship, and when I get horny. There is no turning back. I hate myself after doing it, but I cant help it. I need help.

  305. I am 38Y male. I lost my virginity when I was 15 to my next door neighbour. Did her for a good 2 years. During this time she bragged to a few of her friends and they got me laid as well. Between 15 and 18 I did around 54 women aged between 30 and 40. Also laid my first Virgin girlfriend when I was 17, she was 16. The sight of blood kinda freaked me out.
    Diodnt really stop after that. Had this knack to find older women and they loved the sex bit. Some would skip office and be in bed with me for 3/4 hours while I was in college. I could bang them once every 30 minutes for 4/5 times.
    I have been married for last 11 years. My wife loves to have sex with me. We have sex atleast 3 times a week. In these 11 years I have had sexual partners aged between 18 to 48. At any point of time I am sexually active with atleast 2 partners, my wife and 1 more. Sometimes the count goes upto 4. I have not had a single man n my life.
    I am an Indian with a huge Libido, was brought up in a small town and am a very successful international banker now. I have been successful just because I dared to ask. I love sex and for whatever reason once people have sex with me they are hooked.

  306. My wife Wendy first had sex age 11. sinse then she has had about 100+ men and 20+ women. i have watched her with 10 men. we love each other very much and i dont minde her sleeping around. ps I have only had 5 women.

  307. 25 y/o male

    1 sexual partner who is currently my wife whom i have a beautiful daughter with and another on the way. Wish i had of lived a little bit more and experienced life because she has had, from my own deductions, at least 15 other partners. I think and wonder every day what it would be like to experience other relationships (sexual and emotional), what its like to cheat or be cheated on, the good, the bad and the unforgettable. Life is a culmination of experiences in which most of the fun stuff happens in youth so dont throw it all away. Have fun, gain experiences, fuck your brains out. You only live once.

  308. 20 y/o female
    57 men.

    I got raped by my step brother when I was 9 until I was 14.. But I didn’t officially have sex til I was 15.. I don’t have any regrets just stories. Its hard now because 80 percent of them I slept with between 15-18. So now that I’ve slowed down to two guys every six months. I still get one person they know that slept with me. And it sucks!!! But I’m working on it nd hopefully whoever I marry can accept my past.

  309. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. we waited a year to have sex and within that year he told me of only 6 of his sexual partners. Weeks after having sex for the first time, which was when I lost my virginity I asked again, his answer changed to 14 and 3 of which he can’t recall their names. (He’s 21, I’m 18) (10 of which I know, and 3 of them are disgusting) I had already given him oral sex and now I’m not gonna lie, I’m 100% completly repulsed by him. He’s in the military and away on deployment and I honestly believe if he was here, it wouldn’t work because I don’t even want to think of him sexually anymore. I love him for the person he is, but I honestly believe when he comes home and trys anything that I will throw up. He knows I’m disgusted by his number and the fact I know them, and he thought I got over it.. 6 months ago, but I can’t bring myself to not throw up when I picture being with him. He’s constantly talking about marriage and kids when he comes home and I don’t know what to do anymore. Why am I repulsed by the person I love more then anything?

  310. Isn’t the point, after reading different people’s responses, that people are going to be all over the map with this. There is no ‘normal’ and value judgements such a ‘slut’ or ‘ho’ really have no meaning. It depends on what sex is in your life. Sex can be anything from rape all the way up to some loving, beautiful union in a committed relationship. If you’re using sex to fill some unfillable void in your life, that can be sad. If you’re using sex to prove you’re desirable or powerful and have no regard at all for your partner, then that’s a little sad too. Sex can mean different things at different phases of life.

  311. dc :im 21 years old only 1 partner which i am married to and have a kid with but after being with my wife for four years(2 dating 2 married) she tells me that she slept with atleast 10 other guys before she met me and lied when she told me she was a virgin in the beggining. im upset about it because i wouldnt be on the position im in if she had been honest, am i over exaggerating?

    You are. My wife had more sexual partners than me (only 2 others) but it’s ok. She chose you. Most people have had more partners than we had.

    Best

  312. I am 39 years old. I’ve had 1 sexual partner in my life so far and she’s my wife. It’s not due to my Beliefs but the fact that i didn’t find a suitable mate until i was 32 years old (i had some short flirts before but none ended in bed).

  313. I stopped counting at 55 and that was 2 years ago at the age of 27. I didn’t become sexually active until I was 24. I don’t know … if I had to estimate based on my “activity level” and times that by the 2 years that have gone by since I’d say 100 to 120. I live in an area of Canada where men outnumber women so there’s no shortage of guys.

  314. I lost my virginity at 27 to the guy i was going to marry. He turned out to be an ass and was cheating on me. I was a be with one person, sex with the person you love kinda girl until that happened. took me a few years to get over him and then I went on somewhat of a sex search – all casual sex partners. in total 12 guys in the last 3 years. I am looking to meet more and have met most of them online. People may say “oh it’s your esteem” but it’s quite the opposite. i found it quite liberating to have many No strings attached men. I’m enjoying sampling the buffet. i will settle down but its going to be with the right guy for me — as i am now

  315. i had sex at 13 yrs old was with the guy for 6 mths before we did anything and im now 32 and had 13 men since then i dont think thats bad just normal never had any stds always been careful 4 were boyfriends and the others were just one night stands

  316. Im 18 lost my virginity at 13 and ive had 6 real sexual partners 2 were one night stands and the others i dated and to date people have always made me feel like a whore, people think ive fucked more people than i really have and i really dont feel like i have to explain who ive opened my legs to except to someone i open my legs to you know what i mean? i hate all these people talking shit, they need to worry about their own dam lives. Personally im not trying to make my list that long but if you wanna do what it do, do what it do.. why should guys have all the fun. Dudes can get stds just the same way girls can, the thought of multiple vaginas wrapped around a penis is just as bad for a girl to think of as vice versa.

  317. im 22 and have been with 73 guys and 4 girls im not ashamed of how many people ive been with i was honest and open to my recent b/f of how many ppl i have had sex with never had and std and only had one unexpected pregancy but that was with a guy i was with for 5 yrs but after 2 mths of beeing prego i had a misscarage. so yes i may have been with alot of people but im very carefull on who i have slept with. i have always used a condom even the thime i got knocked up we used a condom. so all you people out there who look down on girls or guys for having lots of sex as long as you do it right and be safe about it it can be loads of fun

  318. 35 y/o male
    lost virginity at 14
    over 130(less than 150) partners 100 of those before turning 21
    STD free
    above average for the statistics so now does that reflect on me or on my partners since most of them knew me and my “whorish”(according to the mainstream)nature
    my wife of 5 years knows about my past and i know about hers she has had less than 5% of my total partners and honestly it wouldn’t matter how many she has had it is the person I love not their dalliances

  319. I’m 18 years old and to date i have had sex with 33 men. Lost virginity at 14. 9 were boyfriends, one relation was 2 years, one was 10 months. Rest of the guys were fuck buddies or one night stands. I loved very much the first guy, but he only used me for sex, it’s a kinda brutal thing to happen to a 14 year old girl, being dumped after one month after losing her virginity. I’ve been kinda unluky when it comes to relationships, i have not cheated on the 3 guys i have loved. But the relationships went wrong anyway. Last two years only had sex with 3 guys anyway.
    I’m not blaming my ex-promiscuity on circumstances, I do have a very increased libydo compared to girls my age. I never tell the truth about how many guys i’ve been with, i told my last boyfriend i’ve had sex with 20 men. But after I’m moving in a big town later this year, i’m gonna lie to anywone who asks and tell them i’ve slept with 3 men. I can’t tell the truth, even if there were 8 guys or so, ppl would still think i’m a whore. So no truth for me… :D

  320. I personally believe this I have had between 0-3 sexual partners its could be any one of those numbers I’ll let you guess. In reality I think that this entire obsession for males and females about the number of sexual partners they’ve had is 1 for males to do with feeling insufficent and mentally picturing the act of sex and being disgusted by other males private parts which is fair enough. For females they want to be accepted by males and generally whatever bothers a guy about a female will also in alot of cases bother a female about herself. Now someone can be the type of person refered to as a “slut” and go out and get with about 50 people I personally am against this idea but in reality then someone can have 2 sexual partners or 1 and feel guilty about it to feel crap about themselves presenting outwardly how they feel about themselves to project how they think people are seeing them into a reality in someone elses perception. Have you wondered why some females seem to look really nice and have has heaps of had bfs amongst other things its because they dont care about the amount of boyfriends theyve had where as a girl whos had 1 bf and feels guilty about it because she has the belief that sex before marriage is bad might think badly about herself. So the moral to the story is also that lets say we werent living in this society and we were living in times like in previous cult groups in the past bc period when humans were fairly primitive being all over the place sexually would have been considered normal societies base is focused around religion which believes sex before marriage is not really a good option and because majority of the worlds religions believe in the definition of purity when everyone has made mistakes has done things that you could turn around and say theyre not pure for and alot of people just want to make themselves seem nice or maybe they genuinely are who knows but the point is alot of people also want to be accepted. If you care about yourself and not look at the irrelevant things in your life if someone has an issue with something the moment you retaliate with feeling that issue you confirm to them that theyre right no one is right and wrong in my opinion and if its from 1-100 or whatever limit you can think of guys youve slept with in reality the issue with this number lies with you and not anyone else, if you are worried what a guy will think of you then maybe stay away from guys that will judge you and have this opinion that females should be almost like a possesion for a female notice when a guy says why would you buy a used car as a comparison and its ridiculous, imagine if females were to say the same thing about males? date someone more accepting who doesn’t think about
    things like that I personally myself would not want to be in a relationship with someone who thinks they own me I wouldn’t imagine in my opinion that they’d be a good catch because anyone can have a slip up and if you dont meet their standards maybe youre not pretty anymore they’ll just judge you. I hope I havent offended anyone but I think people posting these questions need to stop trying a magic formula number like 5 20 50 100 is fine if i exceed this limit theres something wrong with me if you think something is wrong with you anyone there will be.Also one other thing is females calling other females sluts which i would never do confirms in alot of males silly heads thats ok everyone wants to appear nice to their bfs but I think constantly saying omg ive only had 1 bf to your bf makes him think about oh wow all other females arent as good as my gf whos had 1 bf then what happens is all these guys that eventually break up with their gfs go off into the playing field again and theyre the ones that might be likely to judge someone because it was their gf that had an issue with it and mentioned itin the first place! If you dont want to create a race of guys that judge females based on these things stop drawing attention to it when theres no need to, the only effect is in creating guys that actually do care

  321. my gf lost her virginity to me when she was 19, she 21 now been together since.. u have to be able to controll urself and have power of will… otherwise look at yall sluts are 20 years old and have had many many many partners, i mean if u are a hot girl, and onse i find out u have been a slut, i wouldnt want to have anything serious with u, every gay wants a real woman not a dirty hoe…

  322. 14 female. I have had one sex partner. That would be my boyfriend of 6 1/2 months. Have no regrets we both love each other very much :)

  323. 20 year old female i have slept with 15 , 8 were one night stands with friends 5 were fuck buddies and only 2 were bfs, the sad part there are four guys that have been great friends of mine that if i ever got the chance id fuck the hell out of , if i werent in a relationship, but i am and we haven thad sex …. hes a virgin and i am so ashamed to tell him how many ppl i have been with. i had a bad year in 09 and went crazy i think before january of 09 my number was 6.. 3 in 07 and 3 in 08 4 of those 6 liked me and i used them…. 8 of them over half the guys i have slept with were in one year and really and honestly6 of the 8 were in 5 months….

  324. i am 19year old female and have slept with 17 lads. I dont know i just sort of think when u finally do settle down you want to know thats the right one for you and that you have experienced a bit of everything and dont’t feel you have missed out. I think maybe a lot of people might think thats a high number and sometimes i feel a little bad like i should stop, however i enjoy it and its not hurting anybody, if i had a boyfriend i know i wouldnt cheat, but im free to do what i like in my opinion.
    HOWEVER the guys i do get are only interested in sex, however luckily not just one night stand sort of things but they all turn into fuck buddies. so it isnt really as bad, people say “dont you feel used” but why cant a female use a male?! i mean common.

  325. 21 y/o f.
    8 guys.
    4 were boyfriends.
    4 were fuck buddies
    or one night stands.
    6 of them happened when i was drunk.
    the problem is i love to drink and have a good time,
    and when i drink i want to fuck.

  326. I’m a 19 year old female and have had sex too many times to count… but I’ve had 13 male vaginal sex partners and 3 female sex partners… and I’ve messed around with 2 or 3 people out side of the sex partners. So if you count everything… I’ve had about 18-19 partners. I normally count the male partners, so in my terms, I’ve had 13 partners in total. I’ve never had an STD, nor have I ever been pregnant. I think I’m pregnant now, but I’m currently engaged to my boyfriend now (yes he is in the list of sex partners).

  327. linda :
    I had sex with 70 males in two years STD free =)

    I’m 19 year old female and I’m kind of ashamed of my past. When i discovered sex at 16 i was like wow I want more of that! I just really liked it. I have no std’s and never gotten pregnant… I’m very careful. It feels so natural and good why should it be looked down upon? I don’t even know what to think. I’m not going 2 count cause its late and I’m tired but i guess I’ve had 15 more or less. and I think its a high number… 5 men every year oh god! I don’t think I’m a slut but if I ever heard a girl say 15 guys i would think she is a slut so I kind of hate my self.. fml
    P.S i just had sex 30 minutes ago and it was great I’m so confused

  328. dnta_judge :I have been with 28 guys. I am not making excuses but I grew up in a terrible enviorment. my mom got beat by her man and showed us no love. my older sister slept witt men for fun n these were my examples.I also got raped at 14 n sex was nothing special to me. now im in a longterm relationship n hav told my man I’ve been with 4 guys. I grew up n genuinely changd before him. I feel so bad about my past tho. I wish I could change it or at least forget about it.

    …u shouldnt keep that from ur boyfriend.

  329. Anonymous :Im 18, lost my virginity about a year and a half ago. I’ve had 8 partners so far. 4 i regret, and 3 of tha 4 only happened once (they werent one night stands, we still talk pretty frequently). When im asked how many partners i’ve had, im embarrassed to tell the truth. Even my closest friend only knows about 4. Is 8 really too many considering my age and when i lost my virginity..?

    …if can only knock up another 8 during ur life time .thats ok

  330. jennifer :I’m a 23 year old female I lost my virginity @ 16 and since then have slept with 39 guys & only 2 of them were my bfs yet only one was long term (3years). I did also have 2 threesomes once with a female & male another time with 2 males. I’m very outgoing & not shy about what I want or my body

    proper slag

  331. Wow, sad… I’m 23 and have been with 4 guys and am now married. Why do people think the more sexual partners they have the better, it just makes things more complicated, and gives you more chances to get fucked over…Hello…stds, unwanted pregnancies, syco stalkers…Come on people. I personally think man whores are just as nasty as women whores (and the # doesn’t tilt for the guys why should it, it’s bullshit that guys are envied for being whores while women who do the same are looked down on, it doesn’t matter what sex either way your disrespecting yourself and numbing yourself so you’ll never find that 1 person who’ll want to grow old with you.. Stupid!!

  332. I lost my virginity 2 days before my 17th birthday: 5 months ago, that was a one night/next morning stand. I had steady sex with a “cutty buddy” hahaha for about 3 months then last night I had sex with a boy I used to like be in love with about a year ago.

  333. 26 Male, slept 9 girls. Recently Married Woman 10yrs older than me. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I love her more than anything else is this world!!!

    Women don’t worry about your numbers, even if they are high. It just makes you a better more experienced lover. When you decide to settle down your new man will be getting all the benefits of that. He will be very lucky man to have such a sexual experienced woman.

  334. im 19 female and slept with 10 guys, 1 was my boyfriend, 3 were friends, 3 i was seeing for like a week, and 3 one night stands. slut?

  335. im 19 and have been with 7 guys. one im not sure if i should count though because i didnt want to do it in the first place he barely put it in and then i told him no and left mind you i told him no many times before that i just finally got the guts to leave. so i guess 6 by choise im not proud about my number but three were one night stands i had a very depressing 6 months and thought that would help… it didnt. i wish i could take those back. after reading a lot of these comments though i think some guys should be a little more understanding. a lot of girls dont have sex for the sex when you have a hard time like i was your mainly just trying to find a way to be held even if its only for a night. so i dont think the number matters so much as why they were doing it.

  336. 57 year old Canadian male….about 65 women…of those 55 were ” one week holiday ” stands…first was my girlfriends mother…great, great teacher…patience…how to receive as well as give pleasure….about 4 different oral sex styles….remainder… all long term

  337. im 32 and 14 is my number 1 is my 27 y\o wife and her number is 20 including me she had some rough teen yrs. i would have say that its been hard for me because she grew up in a small town that moved 2 and i met most of her past partners and it has made it rough on me so to all you girls who sleep with every guy u meet remember someday youll meet a great guy and youll either have to lie or tell the truth and the truth can really hurt

  338. im a 22 year old female, had sex with 9 guys, even through three of them dont really count in my head because they were one night horrible stands. and i lie about it and say 3 or 4 when asked. if it had been up to me it would’ve been 1 but when the 1 left me, he also took my self esteem! so yeah im gonna stick with 3 from now on.

  339. 22 year old female, had sex with 9 guys, even through three of them dont really count in my head because they were one night horrible stands. and i lie about it and say 3 or 4 when asked. if it had been up to me it would’ve been 1 but when the 1 left me, he also took my self esteem! so yeah im gonna stick with 3 from now on.

  340. Maybe this should give some of you a DOSE OF REALITY. The average for a male is 8 and average for a female is 4. Some of you are seriously disgusting, no wonder there is such an increase in STD and psychological problems.

    OK going by CDC statistical data Life time for average Male is 8. Female is 4. 20% of Males have done over 20 and 15% of females have done over 15. Average pick up artist male does 300 females , good looking male (top 5% looks) 40females (just social not a womaniser), Good looking Pick up artist 400 to 500 lifetime. Punter (guy frequents prostitutes) 300 to 800. Swingers 500 to 1000.
    A rock star like: Gene Simmons (Kiss) has done 3000 lifetime. Now most (90%) women have less than 10 lifetime partners,however 9% have between 11 to 50 and 1 have hundreds and thousands. Prostitutes brothel average 500 guys a year- 3 to 5 thousand career. Now for 26 college students average is 6 male, 5 female.

  341. Wow, either some people are lying or that is really disgusting. I’d never date/sleep with someone that had that many partners with today’s world. That’s pretty sad. Sorry, it’s frickin pointless to have sex with that many people, I say going over 15 is a bit much and more than 20 is just disgusting and pointless. I’m 21 and I’ve had sex with 9, but I’m not about to keep it up, because I don’t want to be a loose slut or have to tell my future partner I’ve had sex with that many people. Most ppl think that is a HUGE turn off. I’m in college and most guys are turned of if a girl is in double digits.

  342. 130+ WHITE MALE ,I ONCE HAD SEX WITH 8 GIRLS IN ONE WEEK, GUYS ARE TO WILLING AND GIRLS ARE TOO EASY WE USE TO HAVE ORGIES JUST TO MEET NEW GIRLS I THINK AS LONG AS YOUR CAREFUL AND WILLING GO FOR IT!!!!

  343. WHAT HAS THE WORLD COME TO? ARE THERE ANY WOMEN LEFT THAT DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH EVERY MAN THEY MEET? I’M MALE AND I HAVE ALSO OVERDONE IT BUT AS WRONG AS IT IS IT SEEMS OK FOR A MAN TO SLEEP WITH AS MANY WOMEN AS HE CAN BUT A WOMAN IS NASTY IF SHE HAS SLEPT WITH MORE THAN LIKE 5 MEN, I DON’T AGREE WITH THIS BUT IT IS HOW MOST OF THE PEOPLE IN THE USA SEE IT. I’M 39 AND BY THE TIME I WAS 25 I SLEPT WITH OVER A HUNDRED WOMEN MOST OF WHICH WAS WHEN I WAS UNDER 18, THANK GOD I DIDN’T END UP WITH SOMETHING EXCEPT TWO CHILDREN BY TWO DIFFERENT WOMEN. AFTER LIVING THROUGH IT ALL I NOW WISH I WOULD HAVE FOUND THAT PERFECT WOMAN AND ONLY WOULD HAVE HAD SEX WITH HER. DOES ANYONE ELSE FEEL THIS WAY OR IS IT JUST ME?

  344. I’m a 23 year old female I lost my virginity @ 16 and since then have slept with 39 guys & only 2 of them were my bfs yet only one was long term (3years). I did also have 2 threesomes once with a female & male another time with 2 males. I’m very outgoing & not shy about what I want or my body

  345. Im 18, lost my virginity about a year and a half ago. I’ve had 8 partners so far. 4 i regret, and 3 of tha 4 only happened once (they werent one night stands, we still talk pretty frequently). When im asked how many partners i’ve had, im embarrassed to tell the truth. Even my closest friend only knows about 4. Is 8 really too many considering my age and when i lost my virginity..?

  346. I lost my virginity when I was 13 .Im 15 now and have had 7 different partners .One who is black .My family is racist .(Im not)

  347. I had sex with 14 different stuffed animals. I had a rough past, and it was nothing new to me. I know I can get by my addiction, its just some of these animals are so….cute.

  348. I have been with 28 guys. I am not making excuses but I grew up in a terrible enviorment. my mom got beat by her man and showed us no love. my older sister slept witt men for fun n these were my examples.I also got raped at 14 n sex was nothing special to me. now im in a longterm relationship n hav told my man I’ve been with 4 guys. I grew up n genuinely changd before him. I feel so bad about my past tho. I wish I could change it or at least forget about it.

  349. i hope I only have one partner my whole life — my boyfriend of current. He is amazing in bed and loves me, we have sex 5-6 times a week so i’d say even with one partner, I’m experienced…having more than 4 partners to me is just disgusting

  350. im 19 from orlando ive had 23 partners i think its due to just goin to the club..girls are pretty dumb now a days jus tell the m they r pretty and have a nice smile talk to them for a week and your in ;) …anyways my gf 21 shes been with 7 guys b4 me nd i think its gross …so girls maybe u should think about your future bf or husband b4 u go off having sex with any random guy think how they would feel about it… just a word of advice

  351. 28 years old – slept with 4 guys n 1 girl – 4 of them were my partner at the time. Ironically, the one night stand is the only one I didn’t regret getting involve, cos at least the emotional side of things didn’t get messy. I wouldn’t want to be a virgin, but I would choose differently if I get to do it again. I would do things more the old fashion way, instead of hooking up, then fall into a relationship.

  352. i am in my sixties now istopped chasing in my early 49s but have been with 350 plus 8 which were black .2 hispanics

  353. Well I have only had sex with one person and I am 27. It doesnt matter cause I am better looking than all of you anyway and can get laid anytime I want to.
    – Komo

  354. Yeah that stripper is probably butt ugly from Idaho or something and just gets laid cause she is a slut and easy to get with hahaha. Poor girl.

  355. I’m 22 and been with 43 guys and 1 girl. I am an ex dancer (stripper) so I feel like I don’t have dat many sex partners

  356. 23 year old women and my number is 8…but one of them i don’t want to consider becuz he was soft and it lasted less than five minutes.

  357. Well, two for sure but what counts as sex? I had mutual oral sex with a guy and did everything but actual intercourse with another. Depends on what your definition of sex is I suppose.
    26 years old….come from a very conservative family and had to sneak around to do all of this.

  358. Well anyone who has had sex with more than 20 people I would consider a slut or whore whether male or female. Especially if they are less than 30 years old!

  359. I am 27 years old and have had sex with only one person in my life.
    I wish I could have sex frequently with many women. People say I am a good looking guy. I dont get it why women dont find me attractive. I feel so bad about it everyday.

  360. 26 years old, just under 300 men and women. Only two were LTRs. Well adjusted, educated normal chick. Makes you wonder huh? Makes me wonder sometimes.

  361. 23 female, I’ve been with 50+ I started having sex at 17
    Do you think this is too much?
    Part is due to drug use when I was 19, 20, and 21.

  362. im 21 years old only 1 partner which i am married to and have a kid with but after being with my wife for four years(2 dating 2 married) she tells me that she slept with atleast 10 other guys before she met me and lied when she told me she was a virgin in the beggining. im upset about it because i wouldnt be on the position im in if she had been honest, am i over exaggerating?

  363. Well this has gotten some good replies. I’m the person who posted 2nd back in July (70+). I didn’t think this many people would reply after mine. Very nice. I don’t feel like such a ho now ;)

  364. and Mr “15 since January” that is an impressive statistic, good sir. For me, it pours when it rains and then the drought comes. I need to learn to keep form. Men, please don’t try to explain why your numbers are “low.” they are not. May I ask: can you provide a ratio of total numbers to one night stands? Also, what are your average turnover rates. Ladies too. I’m interested. And what about tandems? Regards.

  365. I clearly am joking. 28 y/o. 22. One name I can’t remember. I prostrate myself before the masters. Good form, ladies and gentlemen.

  366. I’m a 19 year old female.
    I’ve had 6 and a half guys. I don’t really count one of them because he couldn’t get it up and just kind of shoved it in there. It was horrible.

  367. oh btw, i also want to ask, how is it possible to have so many sex partners in such a short span of time?? the guy that had 15 girls in half a year, i don’t even meet 15 new attractive girls in one year!! either you guys are full of sh!t or i have been living in a closet :(

  368. 23 y/o male, one prostitute this summer.
    guys/girls, i’m really curious, how on earth do you meet and sleep with so many of the opposite sex??!! maybe it’s because i’m studying medicine at a top university that i don’t meet girls who want sex?? would appreciate tips or advice about where/how to meet girls for ONS or more!

  369. 20 year old female
    2 men. Both long term relationships, currently dating the second guy.
    I’m pretty open sexually, really comfortable with my body and i love sex. But i don’t understand women who sleep around casually. I don’t mean to discrimnate. I just want to understand because i can’t let a guy enter me, or touch me in such an intimate manner unless i trust him and i know his willing to put time and effort into me. Maybe i’m just over complicating the situation. My current boyfriend on the other hand has probably slept with 50+ women.

  370. 31 year old male, married and have been mostly in long term relationships since 18. I have slept with 36 woman .

  371. I have had 12 sex partners. I asked a girl how many she had and she said I was the 4th partner. I think that is a lie. Her sister told me there is this dude in her city that said she use to give head to everyday. So how so i get the true answer out of her. When i think that she is telling me a lie so I want leave her.

  372. i have had sex with 20 guys.. i dont want tu tell yu guys how old i am.. cuz i nkno i wuud get a range of diff reactions from y0u guys who openly put your 70& 100 partneres on here.. age is definately something that is a factor in your sexual activity and how people perseve that….. just know that i was born in the 90’s.. i have the same opinion as the person who said some were actually “worth it” and some were mistakes that i only dream of taking bac.. but were also learning experiences ill say that 10 were worth it 5 were mistakes because of popularity or whatever and 5 were just neutral… i dont just have sex with random guys but the least time that it took was about 2 months.. i want to slow fown but i cant.. the funny thing is.. i get no stimulation from sex.. its ORAL SEX that pleases me!

  373. I am 21 years young couldnt sleep….besides tonight im usually thinking to myself that 16 guys is a lot for me being that I used to be so modest and now since Ive seperated from my husband it seems I get infatuated with someone and then it just doesnt work or fit my life then the tally just goes up and its awful…. so I try not to forget who all that I have been with atleast knowing their names helps me to feel a little better…. when Im done I shread the list it would be horrible if someone found it and realized what it was so every once and a while I tally it up on paper again and again “good news is my first was by my ex-husband who is my sons father” atleast I can say that. I feel like Ive been toooo wild..it does hurt me to be told that im great at head and creative in bed by most because (number 1)I love sex (number 2)those kinda things make me want to jump to show off what ive been told right off and it makes me anxious where as usually in the past I would wait months and get to know the person….it kinda sux but I dont feel so bad I guess it can be a good thing you just have to keep yourself and others safe = ]

  374. Iam a 21 year old male been sexually active since I was 16 and over them past 5 years I have had 12 girls to date that I had Intercourse with ps. it me again Iforgot to add that last part

  375. I am in mid 40’s and could not give an exact number but certainly must be close to if not over 300.

  376. I think aroud 50 but I have had long term relationships for the most part. I also got it on with my best friends two sisters when they were 25 and 27 in the family hot tub. Both really hot girls, a little weird now though.

  377. hey girl with 70 plus that’s the same way i found this site haha i thought i was above average…and i’m definatly not the pushy type and i try my best to please the young lady before pleasing my self love eating pussy@!
    24/M
    112 std free@!

  378. Okay.

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    I will adding more stories like this to see people’s reaction.
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  379. I haven’t done much poking around but I plan to check out the site more. I found this site when I did a google search on number of sex partners. I’m curious about what is considered a ‘normal’ number by most people.

  380. No problem, I totally understand!!!
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  381. Anything I leave as far as email or networking would be too much information. I don’t know anything about this site or who runs it so I’m definitely not leaving it here ;)

    I keep my sex life as far separate from my ‘real’ life as possible.

  382. You have not left a name, email or myspace or any social networking info. Is that cause you will not put a name to a face because of your honesty about your sex life?

    I can understand if you dont because of that!!

  383. I am not a super model but I am above average. Very comfortable with myself and my body. Very open minded and easy to get along with. I am told by many that there is something very intriguing about me. *shrug* I’m not cocky or anything; just honest and a lot of fun.

    What do you mean by “totally anonymous”?

  384. Well you must be a fine specimen for you to have so many lovers, or is it your liberal attitude toward sex that makes you desirable?

    Or is it both?

    Are you totally anonymous?

  385. I am rarely asked that question but I dread the day that I am ready to settle down and my potential husband asks me… I’m not sure what I would say. I don’t know what is considered normal anymore. I have NO DOUBT that giving an honest number to anyone who hasn’t had the same lifestyle could end a relationship. It’s scary.

  386. I learned what I did or did not like and enjoy. I learned that size DOES matter. I learned how to tell if a guy was pushy or disrespectful before actually getting naked with him. I learned how to give the best head on the planet. I also learned that getting to know someone before having sex generally makes it more fun. Jumping around just means you have to learn someone new each time and while that can be exciting, it doesn’t make for great sex. I learned that many guys have no idea how to please a woman.

    The chicks were because I am attracted to women as well. I’m just very picky about what women I sleep with because they tend to be more clingy and full of drama.

  387. good question. I would say about half were truly fun and ‘worth it’. The rest were learning experiences. That number also includes about 10 women. I have had quite a few one night stands and many people who’s names I never knew. I’m much more chill now but I went through a couple of wild years.

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