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MUNCIE– Marriage was always a part of Camille Bridges’ life plan, and at 24 years old that plan became a reality.
But for many black women locally and nationally, the dream of marriage remains only that.
Forty-two percent of black women have never been married, compared to 21 percent of white women, according to national statistics.
But Bridges believes the data don’t have to be an indicator of the outcome of black relationships.
“I believe that if you have a desire to be married, it’s about timing and knowing who you are first,” she said. “Don’t worry about what you don’t have. Worry about what you do have and before you know it, your mate will come.”
Local church ministers follow Bridges’ train of thought more than those of the national statistics.
Although they believe that data collected is accurate nationally, pastors and staff at local black churches point out that they are marrying more young couples than they have in years, indicating a change may be in the works.
“The first relationships where there’s an upsurge is in the relationships with God, and the relationship with God gets them ready to love somebody,” said Brother George W. Thigpen III of Deliverance Temple Church. “Down the line, that creates marriages and better marriages.”
But within the last two generations, marriage rates for African-Americans have dropped significantly. Between 1970 and 2001, the black marriage rate dropped by 34 percent, compared to 17 percent in the general population.
Information from the U.S. Department of Health and Human services and from the U.S. Census indicate that African-American women are the least likely group to get married in the United States. And if they wed an African-American man, those couples have the highest divorce rate in the United States. Read more…
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